he always saying i love u but do u think he means by it or only words.....what is real love? Thanks for ur answers!
2007-02-23 13:34:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow! thanks for all ur answers. I didn't know saying is not all,but show it too
2007-02-23 13:47:04 · update #1
I know when my boyfriend and I started dating he would say seeing each other more than 3 times a week was crazy. We have our own lives too. Seeing each other is not the only thing going on in our lives. I always wanted to see him more but respected his opinion. We have now been dating 2 years and he tries to see me everyday he can. It just shows he loves me now and wants to see me all the time. You knew your in love when you are with him or think about a special moment you guys had and just get a funny feeling inside. When you feel it he will feel it too. Just don't rush it what ever you do. If you are having doughs just ask yourself if you see yourself with him in 5 years to come. Good Luck!!!!!!
2007-02-23 13:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by motowndrlin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell by how he acts, does he make you feel special? Does he do things for you to make life easier for you? Does he show affection from time to time just because you are there? It's the little things that most people take for granted that are done for them everyday but don't pay any attention to it that shows real love. Look in his eyes when he tells you he loves you, there should be a twinkle in his eyes if it's real love.
2007-02-23 21:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by robotchic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He'll not only tell you "I love you," but you'll see how much he cares through his actions. He'll put you first. He'll look out for you. He'll acknowledge your presence when you walk into a room. He'll compliment you. He'll give you your space when you need it. He'll listen and give you his shoulder when you're having a hard day. He'll find happiness in the little things you do such as your mannerisms. He'll appreciate who you are and not try to to change you. He'll make you feel alive and special.
2007-02-23 21:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Free Bird 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Action speaks louder then all the "I love yous". It is when his word matches his actions. It is when he trusts you, is honest in return, responsible in his place in arguments and how he resolves them with you and how you both grow spiritually, when he is gentleman enough not to disrespect you - even if that means sacrificing his old traits and vice versa and when he loves you *unconditionally* without asking for anything in return...that is when you know he loves you...atleast I do.
2007-02-23 21:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not matter how much they say I love you, does he show it? does he show you that he cant live w/out you? just by the way they act they can show you... like you can try on april fools and trick him saying that you don't want to be with him anymore and see how he reacts?(don't do it exactly on april fools, he'll know) see how it works out, if he starts to cry, etc, etc... thats one way you can find out
2007-02-23 21:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jacquie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your asking whats real love im sure yall dont love each other its probablly just lust..real love is a bond you have w/ someone....would you die for him????if you said no then you dont love him.....you sound young and if you are im sure he may just be trying to get in your pants be careful and follow your heart
2007-02-23 21:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by reigns_wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only reason to know if a guy loves you is by spending time with him, and if he shows it.
2007-02-23 21:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by cuddlepuppy777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the last time i told a girl i loved her, lets just say it caused more harm than good.........a guy has to show it not say it...but saying it sometimes doesn't mean he doesn't. just study him if his fake or genuine
2007-02-23 21:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by Funk-Ski Biznez Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he doesn't care how cheesy he is, as long as you laugh. when he just looks at you, without saying a thing,
when he just cares about you.
the problem is when you don't love him back.
2007-02-23 21:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by dapos_71 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
real love doesn't come in words it comes in their actions. they need to prove by their actions that they love you... â¥
2007-02-23 21:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by wind it up 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋