2007-02-23 13:31:48 · 20 answers · asked by melx4 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Some of the prettiest, cutest people in the world are also the most ugliest...You need to know that ugly does not start on the outside, it's inside....
You need to stop listening to main stream magazines...All the people in those magazines, aren't real.
My advice to you...
Be true to yourself.....
If you are kind and goodhearted...eventually, someone will see beyond the exterior and see true beauty...
2007-02-23 13:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every single person does not like everything that they've been given. I have thought that only two people were very ugly, (because this is subjective, you may not agree): Keith Richards and Donatella Versace.
And, they go out in public with the confidence of a god and goddess.
What is needed for you is to make a couple of changes.
You could have gorgeous eyes, but you keep your hair over them or your head down.
You probably have a kind heart, but don't value or trust that enough to warm up to someone, so you remain aloof.
The first thing anyone notices is the way someone looks, but the thing they REMEMBER is the way someone carries herself and what she says and does.
You are neither the grandest nor the lowest, but you fall somewhere in the middle of that scale, where most of us are.
What makes you beautiful is how "artfully" you live your life.
2007-02-23 21:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you are basing your self esteem on your looks. Ugly is ugly and you can't fix ugly and all the superficial treatments to turn ugly into beautiful will only make you appear stupid. What you need to do is wake up to the fact that external beauty really has no substantial value. That is why beautiful people can have serious emotional problems. Mother Teresa was not a very attractive woman but to me she was one of the most beautiful people in the world.
2007-02-23 21:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read some of your past questions to get an idea as too why you would feel this way. You asked a question about a month ago about you going on a modeling interview.
I don't believ that if some one was ugly they would be going on an interview for modeling. What happened when you went?
I used to do modeling and I found myself beating myself up if I didn't get a job, and I FELT ugly. Is that what happened? I'm guessing that you are a very confused girl who hasn't found her nitch yet.
Just keep your chin up. Keep smiling. Its not important to be pretty anyways. Magazines make us feel like we need to add up to something, and if we don't then we feel bad.
My moto is LIVE LAUGH LOVE. Thats all thats important.
2007-02-23 21:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that every person has something that can make this person special. Some people are beautiful but that doesn't implies success in life. Some others are not beautiful but can be successful and even attractive to others just because they have a high self esteem. Now: I think every woman is beautiful....we are in different shapes, sizes and colors..and all of us have something that we don't like: the hair, the eyes, the nose...
You should recognize what is the best part of yourself: your eyes, your smile and try to take advantage of that!
2007-02-23 21:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You convince yourself you're beautiful. Every morning when you wake up, look in the mirror, and say OUT LOUD "I'm a beautiful, wonderful person!" Do it again before you go to bed.
Every time you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts about yourself, think of 3 good things.
Repetition is probably what got your self-esteem so low, so repetition can get you out of it. And you MUST convince yourself that it is YOUR opinion that counts, not the opinions of others. When you feel good about yourself, others can sense it. Be true to yourself.
2007-02-23 21:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even know you or what you look like. I do know. Being Pretty is nice sure, but it's not what gets you into to college, it's not what gets you a job, and it's not what gets you friends. So reevaluate yourself and don't think "Am I pretty?" "No I'm ugly" but think "Am I a good person? Do I work hard? Do I know my priorities?" You should focus on the good qualities and not drown yourself in the bad ones and think about what is important.
2007-02-23 21:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lynz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First sit in front of the mirror. Think of all the things that go on inside of you. Ex.. how your blood flows in your veins. How all those amazing things work so hard to keep you alive and healthy. Then pick your self up and look right into your eyes. "Am ugly so i would work with what i got"
2007-02-23 21:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by iofagbems 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here is what I do!
I don't think very highly of myself either, but everytime that I think a negative thought, I say I good thing about myself. Do something extra special too!
The power of words is everything!
2007-02-23 21:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch Ugly Betty
2007-02-23 21:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica B 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋