Teenager Problems?

Question

Okay i am 13 years old and girls my age are having sex , doing drugs,wear make-up and wear padded cupped bras.

I on the other hand wear normal training bras (an okay size,34 a)
and hardley ever wear make-up and i wear my hair up in a pony tail all the time...is that normal or weird?

what could i do to make every one stare whenever i pass them in the halls?

not saying anythings wrong with wearing padded bras or make-up...


but most guys like more girls like me than girls like that...

Answer 1

Argh this is the sad reality of teenage life today. i stay stick with the no make and wearing trainin bras. If you look say 3yrs into the future all these girls will be slags and nobody will like them. Wheras you will be a mature well-rounded young woman, and thats what guys find sexy. not padded bras and make-up.

Answer 2

Just go have fun. Why is everyone in such a big hurry to start the mating rituals? Enjoy your childhood - the boys will ALWAYS be there - whether you have a padded bra, makeup, fancy clothes etc. Give those guys a bit more credit - some guys like the real thing - girls that know how to play sports, have a conversation, an opinion and interests. Just keep doing what interests you - hobbies, sports, education. Work now, play later - you'll play longer and have more fun and $ to do it with. Don't hit your peak in Jr. high.

Answer 3

well definitely don't wear anything you're not comfortable wearing. you are a normal size for your age and bigger than some grown woman. honestly, girls that wear a lot of make up/padded bras and have sex and do drugs are the most insecure. they really aren't happy with themselves so they go around doing things they think will please guys. i think like every girl has been through this stage and it's completely normal to just wear your hair in a pony tail. if you want to try blow drying your hair or if it's curly putting mousse in it to make nice curls, you could also try a straightener. don't wear a lot of make up because usually when you first start getting used to it you won't apply it correctly. just try mascara and lip gloss for now. good luck=]

Answer 4

Guys like the other girls because they know that they put out and they can get some. But that doesnt mean that they respect them.

I started to have sex at 13, 14 years old. I regret it today now that Im 23. I really wish I would have waited, because while it was fun when i first got into it, now its just kinda old.. I wish I would have waited for that someone and made it special. But at 13, I wanted to be an adult and wanted to be mature and to me, that meant sex. Plus, more guys payed attention to me - but in the end, i learned, its the girls who wait who are more respected.

You are 13 and thank god you dont have to think about things. You are a YOUNG WOMAN - but not yet an adult. Enjoy your 'childhood' while you have it without worrying about sex.

Make-up, you dont need to wear. If you want to wear it, choose light pale colors. Nothing dark. And your hair it fine. But, if you want guys to look at you, change your look every now and then. wear your hair a different way, come in with make-up now and then, wear something different every few months. Be yourself, dont follow others... Be a leader.

Answer 5

No... you are the normal 13 year old girl. There is nothing good about having sex, doing drugs, getting drunk, and having boyfriends at your age.
Just enjoy being a kid while you still can... before you know it you'll be an adult.

If you want people to stare whenever you pass them in the halls... jsut be confident, walk into a room like you know you are a good person... people will notice.

Answer 6

You are fine you should kinda wait for the big padded bras intill 16 and never do drugs drugs=2 minitues of your life everytime you do and smoking12 seconds a ciggerate so deont you are only 13 wait .But wereing makeup you may wont to wear a little more.goodluck

Answer 7

You are normal for your age, they aren't. Enjoy being 13, it won't last forever. There is absolutely no reason why girls your age should be doing any of the things you mentioned. Don't try and be like them. If you want guys to pay attention to you, then be yourself. Besides, it may seem like a lot of guys like these girls, but in reality, they only see them as sults.

Answer 8

umm, well, honestly, you sound a lot like me. if you want people to look at you, you should try to just be a normal person. i think you're the perfectly normal one. maybe let your hair down every once in a while, try a little lip gloss, nothing heavy, after all, you're young! and, honestly, the kind of guys who you would WANT to be around aren't the ones who care about your chest, or the color of your eyeshadow, or anything superficial like that. hope everything works out for you. good luck to you!! we've all been there!!!

Answer 9

its FINE. u should watch the movie "thirteen" or watch degrassi and use manny as your muse (she felt the same way till she sexed it up) and see that its better to NOT be a complete $lut. people do this crap everyday at my school; it bugs me cause im a little bit different than those preppy sluts (since im TALL, busty, got a big booty, inteligent, wear my hair in a ponytail a lot, dont wear any makeup, or do drugs) u dont have to be doin that type of stuff just to get attention. if youre shy like me then be outgoing and dont be afraid to make a fool out of yourself; give yourself a boost of confidence by smiling a ton, walk with your head held high; if u want to "look" like the girls at ur school then do it...if u want to. some people say that theyd rather be their own person than just be another one in the crowd. so, if u r going to try to "fit-in" a little more try to be like them but create your own flare with it. how do they dress? preppy, slutty, both, other? try hanging out with the crowd by befriending one of the leaders and u might find yourself without any "teenage problems"
add a little pinky-sheer gloss, a subtle amount of blush, black mascara, and a little shimmery eyeshadow....a little makeup goes a LONGGGG way (people usually see me without any makeup and when i wore some they gave me compliments and said i looked different, in a good way tho) if u choose to wear eyeliner go with a black, brown, or shimmery white color---but dont go crazy with it.
HOPE I HELPED♥

Answer 10

i am very proud of you for you do not have to do what others are doing to fit in just be you self for i like you the way you are for you are acting your age which is 13 .you have a lot of time to grow up and wear make up if you wish just be your self and you would be alright .for i have a daughter who do not wear make up or even nail polish and she is a great kid for she is just enjoying begin a kid so again i hope that i help you