Ok well I have this friend Sam and there is this girl Erica who I can not stand,Sam isn't her friend either,but now Erica is talking to her more and they are starting to become friends.I know you can't make someone not like someone else just because you don't like them but what should I do?I already talked to Sam about it and she said no that they weren't becoming friends.So wut else should I do??
2007-02-23 13:16:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok so I'm getting alot of people asking me why I don't like erica is for personal reasons she did something to me that wasn't right.I've know erica all my life and what she did was just completely stupid and childish.Also Erica is trying to steal my friends away from me so what should I do about that.
2007-02-25 12:18:07 · update #1
Oh and also I'm not jealous.Sam said that she hates erica,and now erica is sucking up to her,being alll nice and everything.
2007-02-25 12:20:20 · update #2
Tell Sam that you can't stand her... politely, or nicely or gently. You can't do anything about it. Just be nice and get over it. I'm sure Erica isn't that bad and if you get to know her she is a good person... or something like that.
2007-02-23 13:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by ~Geeks Will Rule The World~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can have friends including some whom may not be accepted by others. Sam might not always like all of your friends.
Are you not jealous, wanting all of Sam for yourself? Jealousy is not right, or good for you, so you might need to take some time to think this over, and let go what you cannot control And should not. Let Sam talk with Erica. If they are meant to be good friends, you won't be able to change that. And if not, then don't worry.
2007-02-23 13:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it...honestly you cant have Sam all to yourself...get used to the fact that shes could be making new friends..be supportive... why dont you like Erica..is there a good reason for it..or are you just judging her...if there isnt a good reason..give the girl a chance..that way if Sam and her do become friends..you dont get left out!
2007-02-23 13:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you like Erica? Did she do something mean to you or do you just not like her for other reasons? If she's done something horrible to you then let Sam know. But if it's just something stupid, your friend Sam could end up telling Erica what you said and that could make things worse. I dunno. Sorry.
2007-02-23 13:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the exact same thing happened to me!! DO NOT STAND BY!! i f u really don't like her, constantly chill with Sam. don't let her talk to erica!!
2007-02-23 13:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you don't have to hang out with the girl there shouldn't be a problem. You don't dislike her for stupid reasons do you? Cause that would be lame.
2007-02-23 13:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by marinehacker202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebodies jealous!!! DO NOT BE JEALOUS!!! She has to be able to make as many friends as she wants and you can make as many friends as YOU want. You need to make sure that your not jealous because you have to understand that you arent always going to be the only one that is her friend, u may not stand her but she might stand her.
2007-02-23 13:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. You aren't her parent or her boss she can make her own decisions. Live and let live.
2007-02-23 13:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-23 13:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋