I thought i was going into the hospital to deliver my baby boy. All checkups were fine. I had visited the doctor one week prior and heard the heart beat. I do take synthroid to comensate for my thyroid problems. Has anyone else experienced anything similar? and if so how did you get over it?
2007-02-23 12:35:31 · 7 answers · asked by cha c 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I had 2 miscarriages, but both at 11 weeks. Do you mean still birth??????????????????? At 8 months I did not know a miscarriage could happen, only still birth and or preterm labor! Time heals wounds, or getting pregnant imediately after body healing got me through and well, I have my 3 boys! I am sorry for your loss!
2007-02-23 12:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by whoa,3boys! 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My heart goes out to you. If I may suggest that if there is no RL support group you join an online one, pronto.
I had a miscarriage much earlier in the pregnancy, and I know that until the day I die I will miss that little one. I can only imagine how you feel.
The worst thing is, most miscarriages are cause unknown. Yours sounds like it might be classified as a stillbirth, in which case they might or might not be able to tell you more. Don't be afraid to talk to the doctor, and see if they can refer you to some counseling. I know it's hard to take but I wish I had had access to something, especially that first little bit.
I do suggest you go to http://www.silentgrief.com/, although it is a Christian-based site and I am not Christian I was still able to get a lot of help from it, and there are lots of mums who will talk to you.
2007-02-23 20:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Fed_UP_with_work. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, dont expect to "just get over it". You lost a child. a human being. Allow yourself to feel all the stages of grief until you finally come to acceptance. You are going to go through the denial, the anger, and the sadness. You have to let yourself grieve at your own pace and dont let anyone else force you through a stage. And dont yourself feel that you have to speed through them. If you do that you are only doing yourself more harm than good and it will take twice as long to accept it. I am very sorry to hear that and my heart is with you.
2007-02-23 20:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and I'm not over it. I've tried therapy and antidepressants. I am now 31 weeks pregnant and am worried all the time. Nothing fills that whole in your heart. I'm not sure what else to say......Talk to someone though, whether it's a friend or spouse just talk to someone.
2007-02-23 20:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by wheezerthill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot miscarry at 8 months. After 25 weeks it is considered a still birth. I know that doesn't make it any easier.
2007-02-23 20:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am so sorry for your loss, I had a friend that went through something like you and she turned to her church and her faith and seemed to deal better with that help.
2007-02-23 20:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by lost F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my hunny...i can't imagine...i had a miscarriage at twelve weeks and it tore me apart...i'm so sorry...the only thing that will heal you is time.
2007-02-23 20:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by *<dEzI>* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋