ok...i have told her how i feel but its like everytime i tell her she some turns it around and makes me look like bad friend...... i spend just as much time with her as i do him...of course im gunna be wit him more we work together so i see him all the time. like i went and saw her the other day and didnt even txt or call my bf while i was with her and she still got mad at the fact that me and him are together. ive tried to hook her up on dates and let me double with me and my guy but she wont do it so ive tried to just hook her up with guys she knows and she wont do it. ive asked her why she didnt like him and she cant give me a real reason. she really is jelous and shes gunna have 2 get over it before she pushes me away totally and she also gets mad when i talk 2 my other friends like if they call or txt me when were hangin out BUT its ok for her other friends 2 call and txt her. its messed up to me....HELP
2007-02-23 12:30:08 · 5 answers · asked by bvrprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This friendship is heading for disaster!!! Literally, and if it not this boyfriend, it will be another. Who knows, do you ever think she will go behind your back with one of them, if she happens to find something you have that she wants? Be careful dear. Me and my Best friend have been friends for 16 years now. And there has not ever been a day in all those years that she has ever made me feel like I needed to choose. Your friend is very immature and selfish and needs to grow up. Its not all about her, you have a life too, besides her. And she needs to get one too!!! My Best friend understands that I have a life too, and when I say I gotta go, I gotta go!! And vice versa. Let her go. She is probabley competitive too. You don't need people like that in your life. Trust me!!
2007-02-23 13:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by RAW AND GRIM \,,/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels left out or something? But, she need to give you your space now and then though. Don't worry she will get over it. She probrobly feels pushed aside. She will come around.
2007-02-23 20:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww im there 4 u gurlie!! im goin thru almost tha sameeeee xact thing! & it sux cuz i don't wanna choose i love em both soo much she already told me she's jealouse of him...but she see's me more because she lives with me but she can't stand when we're hanging out & he call'z she can't stand me tlkin bout him or anything & it hurts really bad...but now i tell her too f- off haha...i think maybe your friend just wants you to her self but she can't & she just gots 2 get used to the fact its not just her that you need to give attention too...but neways good luck!! just tell her how you feel..
2007-02-23 20:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by CuTiE WiD A WhOle LoTtA Bo0ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just really misses you and dosent want to share you. Try to give some special time with just you and her and talk to her. Just a little TLC. Shes just afraid of losing your friendship
2007-02-23 20:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Wolf woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my GOD.... growing up is so hard for girls. this too will pass
2007-02-23 20:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋