how can u get over saying no to people , then fell bad after that, what can u do to get over that??
2007-02-23 12:25:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You grow up and mature. Not easy for a young person. Easier for a mature person that understands that some people are users and you don't owe them your personal time.
2007-02-23 12:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a big heart and you can't say no to people, it is hard to do, but you need to know that there are people who just like taking advantage of you. Some times you have to say no to them especially when they ask you to do something at the last minute without notice even.
You shouldn't feel bad when saying no. You didn't do anything wrong. But, your priorities like family etc...should come first before anyone else.
2007-02-23 20:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how things would be if you would have said yes. By saying no to someone you don't really want is a lot better than saying yes just to be nice because then you are just leading someone on into a dead end, which is the worst thing.
2007-02-23 20:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Woody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of it as saying no. By refusing a request your helping some1 push themselves to find a resolutions to what ever their problem is by themselves and therefore giving them a sense of Independence.
2007-02-23 20:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Waldork 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to say no because if you don't most people will take advantage of it. Stand your ground, Take care of yourself and do the things you want to do.
2007-02-23 20:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by kevferg64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize to them and tell them you were having a bad time.
2007-02-23 20:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize and say "sorry no thank you."
2007-02-23 20:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋