i love my life, everything wuz fine until i got to junior high...i'm 14 and not popular..i have a bunch of great friends, but these popular girls a;lways talk about ,me. They talk behind my back, but loud enough for me to hear ...like, there are some boys who are nice to me, and then, when they want to flirt w/ a girl they like, they make fun of me...i'm not a preppy, but everyone is...someone said my hair is ,messed up today...they've said my butt is too flat...which is none of their freakin buissness anyway! I'm so sad...ignoring them is hard...standing up to them is impossible...i think i'm beautiful the way i am!will i ever enjoy life, who else feels bossed around and like a geek? When will this fase end? HELP!
2007-02-23 12:12:33 · 7 answers · asked by MEOW 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know what? THEY are the ones who are ugly. Because them saying all that stuff behind your back are the ugly ones not you. At least you have friends and family that care about you. Thats all you need all you need is to be happy and everything will fall into place. They should keep their opinons to themselves. And what are they pretty?!
And you know one day they will be working at McDonald's because they are worrying about how they look and about boys and talking crap behind people's back they won't get into a good college and you will be living comfortably and such.
Anyway back to the point, popular girls are nothing but trouble they are what you call "plastics." And its okay you're not preppy just be yourself and don't ever try to be something your not just because everybody else wants to change you. (unless you want to change yourelf.
Best of luck,
Melina
2007-02-23 12:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your beutiful don't call yourself ugly please. I have known girls that were unpopular became very popular with the guys once they started having confidence and started flirting with them.
You say your friends make in front of you because you have a flat butt? So what. Guys like all different types of girls. I tended to get a crush on really skinny short girls who had flat behinds and flat chests. Girls who were more flat looked more delicate to me. I really liked the tiny 5' 92 lb girls.
Get a boyfriend and your friends will start to envy you. A boyfriend is very easy to get, even if you think you don't have the best looks. A lot of guys are actually easy to pick up, you just have to flirt. Some guys will reject you, but I bet , even though you think you are ugly, you will find some boy who thinks your cute.
I was a very popular guy when I was 14, I was captian of the wrestling team and guys looked up to me, I had a girl who was unpopular and teased follow me around all the time. I let her flirt with me and I was nice back to her. I wish I asked her out, but I didn't have a backbone back then. Even though her appearence may of set some guys off, I knew she could be really hot if she knew how to dress right, wear contacts instead of glasses, put on more makeup, and get the right kind of perm.
I bet your a cute girl, you just haven't learned how to show it.
2007-02-23 12:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confident that you are beautiful which is a great thing.and the people who are talking ill about you are just a bunch of school kids, they are not even important. i know u feel they are important coz they are the popular kind. i will tell u this.
i am now in college but when i was in school, i had a lot of friends.i was not the drop dead gorgeous type, but i had guys who liked me. and i am not being pompous but the guys who liked me were some of the nicest guys in class. this happened becoz though i was not pretty, i was good to people.i never said anything to hurt anyone nor did i backbite. and guys appreciated that.
so the point i am driving here is that if a boy likes a girl only coz she looks pretty.. he is gonna be a loser in life.. it shows he is immature. and if a boy is willing to trade drop dead looks for a good heart, there is a keeper!!
Keep the confidence going that you are beautiful.. coz u truly are and one day someone who deserves u will recognize that. The rest who don't are not worthy to be your friends nor boyfriends.
2007-02-23 14:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stand your ground you display courage that your shallow "friends " probably don't even understand. My suggestion is that you disregard the chatter and look for people with like interests and integrety. Sometimes it really helps to have a mentor, someone you deeply respect and wish to be like, this can be a teacher, a senior student, a relative. It will help you get through the tough times
2007-02-23 12:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL
I guess these girls are jealous of you they want to have big butt like you they are just so jealous cause guys like girls with big butt and maybe they want you to feel bad cause there butt might be freaking flat. What goes around comes around you'll see that what they are doing to you will return to them maybe it might not be u who is going to make them feel how they are making you feel maybe it will be some other person.
2007-02-23 12:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by ~Beautiful~ & ~Gorgeous~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here but i don't care wat ppl say or think about me.i stand up for myself.i also have parents that love me and tell me i am beautiful.my crush flirts w/ me.and i have a god that loves me dearly and more then anyone else.how do u know ur ugly?the mirror doesn't unless it breaks from a broken heart from lookin at u and getting jealous that it trys to kill u.so ask urself these question:am i ugly?who says i am not?do i care wat others think about me?does anyone say that i am beautiful?who loves/likes me?do i like myself?answer them
2007-02-23 12:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by ღ♥MadamA.A.♥ღ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look those girls are total bitches. you do not have to take there crap. just ignore it and say stuff about them you will feel much better trust me. and why would ant one care about your ***. wow!
2007-02-23 12:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by kelly s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋