There is this girl and we have had sex -if u can call it that- how do i get more pleasure out of it without using any toys or things?
2007-02-23 12:07:40 · 9 answers · asked by yeaiknowUwantme 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Seriously? Usually, if you're both into one another, if you're dedicated to pleasing one another and you each know what turns you on and are open about communicating it to one another, the sex should be quite pleasurable.
Still . . . here are some things to try incorporating into your routine:
Kissing, licking, touching, rubbing, massaging, biting, sucking, cunnilingus (either one at a time, or simultaneously on one another), analingus, vaginal or anal penetration (you don't need to use toys- you have fingers and fists!), manual stimulation with hands, mutual masturbation (either in front of one another, or on one another), tribadism, grinding . . .
That's just to get you started. Work one another up into a passion and things should be easier, hopefully.
2007-02-23 12:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Try Different Postions... Find Different Ways To Move Your Tongue On Her Clit..Or Put Your Tongue In Her....And If You Really Are In To The Person You Should Have No Problem Getting More Pleasure But If You Dont Most Likely The Sex Will Suck.
2007-02-23 20:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Share a hot bath with candles and alcoholic drinks. After the bath, message each other slowly with good, sexy music. Turn on a lesbo porn and gently touch and tease each other while watching it. Kiss softly and flick her nipples with your tongue. She should do the same for you. Do the mutual clit tease while you kiss. Do the scissor position slowly and get close enought to stimulate your clits (my favorite!!) Maybe try doing it in a strange place-- don't get caught by the law if you do it outside. This is all great foreplay and should get you both hot and stimulated. Try LOVEMAKING... Relax and do what feels good to you. Explore and don't think so hard about the big "O"...Think about what turns you on about her... soft skin, ample breasts, firm butt... whatever your into. This is going to take time and effort from you both. Do 69, sit on her face... vice versa. Toys should be for added spice only... Don't depend on them to make love to her. Focus on the little things and everything will *** together....
Good luck!!!
2007-02-23 21:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by pretty_talented_intellegent 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
omg. *bites lip* have u tried the 69 position. the position u both r in is the best way to stick ur tongue inside of her. If ur not up for oral try a strap-on. i know, it's a d*ck, eww, but it feels so different when a girl does it. The first time I used it on my girl she came 4 times in 1 orgasm. Now she always begs me to wear it. But...use it on her while she's watching lesbian porn.
2007-02-23 20:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Just be open and do what feels good. Get a book and read on girl on girl relationships, or go on-line to sites that cater to the lifestyle(not porn sites). Talk to her and tell her what makes you feel good and have her do the same. Most of all, have fun.
Good luck
2007-02-23 20:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Michael b 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Goodness gracious. Are you serious? Try stimulating her "magic button" and vice versa. I'm not sure how graphic I can get here but...it's called the clitoris.
2007-02-23 20:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jason D 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is the "scissors position" where you and your friend get in between each other's legs and go clit to clit. And of course there is always oral.
2007-02-23 20:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by The Overweight Lover 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I f you are totally into her all you need is each other.
2007-02-23 20:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by Vanity 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
try a man and find out
2007-02-23 20:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 4⤊ 4⤋