2007-02-23 11:49:31 · 12 answers · asked by Jim C 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
well it would prolly feel better if u removed your head first,,,just a thought~~~~
2007-02-23 11:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by ~Cindy~ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
There is no "right" or "wrong" way to achieve orgasm. You don't mention your age, which could be of importance, but not necessarily. While many men achieve orgasm without any need or desire for anal stimulation, this does not mean there's anything wrong with you. It also doesn't matter what your sexual orientation is. Despite some of the idiotic comments your question has received, there is no rule that says you have to be gay to enjoy anal stimulation. Many straight men enjoy this, either by using their finger, an appropriately sized sex toy, or by having their partner stimulate them anally. Many gay men enjoy this too, but not all, just as not all straight men do. So, orientation is not of major importance here. If you happen to be gay, you may have a "better" orgasm when you anally stimulate yourself because you may be fantasizing about having a partner for sex.
For men or women, straight or gay, anal stimulation can simply feel good. This is one of the most nerve-rich areas of the human body, so stimulation here is frequently pleasureable, but can be uncomfortable for many. Since women don't have prostate glands, if that were the only reason for anal stimulation to improve orgasm, why would some women enjoy it? Answer, it simply gives them pleasure. The same can be true for men, but as another person told you, stimulation of the prostate gland can be a source of intense pleasure for you. If your finger is long enough to press against the prostate gland, that can send waves of pure pleasure through you, and can make ejaculation feel fantastic. Assuming you don't damage your rectal tissue (with long or ragged fingernails or rough prodding), there's nothing at all wrong with including this in your sexual repertoire.
You don't mention if you have a sexual partner or not, or if you have told your partner about this source of pleasure for you. If you are with someone, you may want to let him/her know what feels good to you, like you would like to know what feels good to him/her. This can deepen the sexual experience for both of you. Don't let ignorant bigots shame or guilt you into labeling or getting down about yourself. It's your body. Treat it well, and pleasure yourself and/or your partner as you most enjoy it. Straight or gay, it's OK to use an appropriate-sized dildo or sex toy to free your other hand, but never insert anything potentially dangerous into your rectum; you can hurt yourself seriously. Good luck.
2007-02-24 02:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by andromedasview@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have someone else stick their finger in your butt? My ex liked this to, It's called milking the prostate. The male equivalent of a woman's g-spot. and in response to above comments, this doesn't mean you are gay.
2007-02-23 23:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you even find out that you could get off like that, what was going through your mind before you jammed a finger into your butt?
2007-02-24 01:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Robert B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick your finger in your father's butt.
2007-02-23 20:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try two or three fingers or try find a partner. you may want to wash your fingers though.
2007-02-23 20:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by unit663 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a girl friend or buy a hooker. Or just get some porn and watch away
2007-02-23 22:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Shenic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to stick your finger in your butt? You gay?
2007-02-23 22:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by JonathanT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ofcourse yet..a good hunter always eats waht she shoot..
2007-02-27 02:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by MINH H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried a girl dude
2007-02-23 19:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by Kingston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋