2007-02-23 11:49:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why is something wrong with chatting online?...its just typing after all!..im certain however you could use some distracting techniques to lure him off the computer, think hard now girl friend, he likes to chat cuz hes getting some attention from someone, u give better attention than any of them im sure!~~~
2007-02-23 11:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by ~Cindy~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From experience, i will tell u. Make him stop.
Idle chit chat turns into intimate chit chat and the next thing u know, they are meeting each other.
He may be leaving everything open and not keeping secrets right now, but i tell ya.....the chatting on internet is nothing but trouble.
I would put a stop to it. There is no need for a married man to be chatting with other females (I am assuming thats who hes chatting with) online. Its disrespectful to u as a woman.
2007-02-23 19:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your asking this question because you have trust isues with your husband. If you have trust isues then he must have cheated on you in some way in the past. So tell him he must stop. I also agree with the answer Cindy gave. You can also create a fake profile and e-mail address and send him a message to meet you some place. Then be setting there when he walks into the place you picked to meet
2007-02-23 20:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by leonardhomes@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of chatting. Ask him let you join in? Then see what he says...if he hesitates...you got a big problem. Hes hiding something. Why does he need to chat? Why not you? I SO would not trust this
2007-02-23 19:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Wolf woman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a potential problem, especially if he is hiding it from you AND if he's chatting with women who are easily accessible - like in the same town. If you felt it could lead to more, you need to shut it down before it escalates.
2007-02-23 19:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With other females? Usually chatting turns into meeting.So, I would erase his yahoo messenger address book or whatever he uses to chat with.
2007-02-23 19:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is way too vague. Chatting about what and with whom? I am going to assume you mean chatting with other females online.
I would just tell him you want to be his only women in his life and it really hurts you when he does this.
2007-02-23 20:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chatting with whom? When? How often? If he's addicted to online chat, tell him to get professional help - or leave if you can't tolerate it.
2007-02-23 19:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your own chat account and find out what he's talking about. Then you'll know what to do.
There's even the possibility you'll find out you're attracted to each other online.
2007-02-23 19:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Answer Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends who he is chatting with. Is he chatting with a woman or a man? You may want to find out if he is chatting with a woman and who is single, find out how often he chats with her, and why he is chatting with her. If he tries to hide what he is saying to her or her saying to him, then you may want to ask him what is going on.
Other than that, if you trust him, you should not worry about it. That's why chat rooms are for people who want to 'chat'.
2007-02-23 19:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋