Why do women always bash "the other woman"?

Question

If the "other woman" can take a married man from his wife....shouldn't said wife be able to keep said married man by using the same means that the other woman used to take in the first place? What say you "victimized" married women?

My point is for a wife to keep her husband, she better act like the other woman. That's the truth. Take that to tha bank. Can I get a witness?

Drew Blood....Tell them about it. That's what I'm talking about.

Suicida...If more women had this attitude there would be less divorce, more murders, but nevertheless less divorce. Great answer!

Ky Lotus...just doesn't get it. If you want your man to cheat, follow her advice.

Joan of freakin arc: The "I didn't see it coming" excuse is weak. How can a woman these day not see it coming.

Answer 1

I think that, if the "wife" was snoozing enough to let another woman into the picture and take her man then she has to rights to him in the first place.

No other woman is taking what's mine without a fight.

Answer 2

What to you mean act like the other women? First of all the "wife" once did act like the other women to get her man. After years into the marriage things happen, bills, kids, family, rent/mo-rage work and everyday house chores. A wife can't act like she just meet the guy. The "other women" is like a snake that she is. She will tell that man all the right things making him feel like a man. But when the reality hits, when the bills come in and his kids have to visit, family, work and house hold chores and she will start acting like his wife and she will and she is a women and she going to have emotions because that what women do we are emotional beings Her real self will come out. At first the man thinks the grass is greener on the other side and when he realizes it's not 90%of all married men who cheat want to come back home to the wife.The other woman don't really take that married man away it's a fantasy until realty comes into play. In trust me his wife don't need to take the same means that the other woman used. She already did at the beginning. If that wife wanted to use them in go out to a bar in pick up a man she could. After a while in a marriage things slow down, because of every day life. In cheating husbands are looking else where when most of the time they don't have to they all ready got it at home.But the cheating husband is the real coward because he refuse to talk to his wife or keep his marriage alive and healthy so it's easier for him to cheat.I know how it works, he tells the other women all the things his wife not doing and this other women buys into it and that when she starts her game. Telling him all the right things. And that makes him feel good. That's way I say he is a coward because he to a shame to tell the women who he loves his wife the truth, for the coward it's much easier to tell a stranger. And at the end the "wife" isn't the victimized the other women is. She with a lire and a cheater. She the one who settle for that one. And the other women all ways believes he won't cheat on me, because am the one he was cheating with. Ya right.As soon as things get duel in their relationship he will again. Of course it hurts the wife, because of the time she put into her marriage and the vows they took, at first the wife don't understand it that's normal behavior for the wife to be hurt. So please try to understand about the wife and the other women.

Answer 3

If another woman can take a man from his wife.......its called a weak man. Nothing the wife did. If he wasnt happy, he should have the balls to leave beforehand.
So u see, its not the wife........its pure weakness in the male species. They are so insecure, that they have to wait for someone to keep them company before they walk...Quite pathetic actually.

And btw....women who bash other women are insecure. If another woman takes their man, they should just sit back and wait, they will get revenge in time. And most of the time, the pathetic little weasel attempts to come back once he sees the grass isnt always greener on the other side. lol

Answer 4

You just don't get it, for one thing the wife is no longer new, different, adventurous,exciting,get the picture there is no way we meaning the wife can compete with that nor should we.Am I wrong to think you promised to for sake all others and to love only me,was I also wrong to think you wanted to have kids together .If that doesn't keep a man home where he belongs then he isn't much of a man and the other woman is welcome to him.

Answer 5

Well, a wife can never act like, or be like, "the other woman". The other woman wins not by some kind of unique combination of traits, but by the sheer fact that she IS "the other woman". Marriage just can't provide the forbidden thrills to quite this degree. What wife CAN do, however, is choose a husband who is respectful of the marriage vows. If you choose a player who disrespects you by having flings with "other women" - you really have no one but yourself to blame. The other women did not make a promise to you - your husband did; hold him and yourself responsible.

And yes, this comes from a woman who had lost her husband to "another woman". Well, not much of a loss, really, as it turned out - I have a much better husband now. ;) But still, I can't go blaming everyone else for MY mistakes.

Answer 6

usually by the time the wife finds out, he has already been seeing her for awhile, and once the wife finds out she is angry, hurt, upset, and in no shape to play the love game, she feels more like killing the liar than loving him. so this is why the other woman gets her man, if the wife would act nice, talk nice, but that is hard to do if u are on the receiving end of all that hurt. yes if we could go back and see where we went wrong and change it, but unfortunately u can't ever go back. when your going through all the hurt, your not much in the loving mood, and could not act like a whore if u wanted to with him.

Answer 7

First off, I would never want to be the 'other woman.' I just can't stand the thought of sharing my MAN with any other woman...I have to be made to feel special, important, etc. HOWEVER...I also realize that it's my job to keep my man happy and satisfied, and I honestly try to do it, but there are times when it is a chore, especially let's say when there's a newborn in the house. So I think that my MAN had better be giving in return, that's his job, his job is to let me know what he needs, to give me space if I'm overhwelmed raising HIS child, and to continue to make me feel special. ALSO, not all men cheat because they aren't getting it from their wives....that's a generalization.

Answer 8

A woman does not "keep" a husband. The husband "wants" to stay. But I do agree, women blame the other woman, when it's the husband that is in the wrong, you leave one relationship before starting another. Contrary to popular belief, men have self control, most choose not to use it.

Answer 9

Well...........first of all there is NO EXCUSE for cheating. But to all the woman complaining about their cheating boyfriends, cheating husbands, and husbands who are online whacking it to porn and adult chat.....I always ask them why? Why would a husband who's getting hot sex from their wife 2-3 times a week stray? Wives have more power over their husbands than they think. Yet they think that complaining about their husbands, nagging them, and snooping their call history & internet history will do a bette job of keeping them from cheating than some good old fashioned sex once in a while!

Answer 10

A faithful man shouldn't even look at other women! I agree women shouldn't let themselves go and should always pay attention to the mans needs -- I also believe the same is true for the man, and a wife shouldn't look at other men either.