I love my boyfriend, but I love my ex-husband too, and I will always love my ex. I sometimes try to find fault with my boyfriend just so he'll stay away sometimes. That's when I sit here thinking of my ex. But then, I call my boyfriend because I miss him. My ex has an attitude that seems like he thinks that he is better than me, that is one of the reasons I left him, among others. Please help!!!
2007-02-23 10:56:34 · 8 answers · asked by cool30mom 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
I completely understand how you feel... I go day in and day out with my boyfriend and I work with my ex. and it gets really hard at times because i feel that because I love two men I'm lieing to myself about things..well my current boyfriend knows how I feel and is ok with that..My ex Is my brest friend we spent 3 great years together and there are times when we sit and talk just like we use to and I miss him dearly..it's hard because for one you don't want to get hurt and you don't want to hurt others..and this is what I battle all the time..It hurts knowing that both these men love me in return and I can't be with both of them...So I do the next best thing and continue being friends with my ex. and my current boyfriend has no problem with it understands how I feel about him and the fact that we have history together..some might think that this is wrong but in my heart it feels right i mean its not like my current guy can claim i'm cheating the only time i leave the house is to go to work and he takes me and afterward i come back home..he doesn't control me but he knows all my moves because i'm always around him..but loving to men hurts and with that hurt you don't want it to spread I just think about the good times and see what'll happen in my future by taking it one step at a time...
2007-02-23 11:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Shawty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can love two men at the same time, but you could only date one man at a time, believe you don't want to learn the hard, because I know I have. Your ex could be just a friend of yours, not a lover because of the way he treated you. Your could stay with your boyfriend as long as possible, meaning that spend a lot more time with your boyfriend, than your ex, and so that your relationship with your boyfriend can last longer. I hope this helps.
2007-02-23 19:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of course you can love 2 guys at once but remeber....if your boyfriend treats you with care better than ur x,than u should let him know u apreciate it and u should be with him, u love him u miss him,theres a good connection between you,but if you still love ur x,no ones stopping u but think,u broke up with him b/c he has an attitude problem and thats no way to treat a lady,now i'm not saying to forget about ur x and only chose ur boyyfriend but be with the one that cares abt u and treats u right..the one that take there time and says i love you..sure they both pobobly said that but what does ur heart say, just don't put it on ur life
2007-02-23 19:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by InDianCuTiE101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur ex either really thinks that he's better than u or he has an insecurity complex and he tries to push the image that hes better when he really feels that he is less. Do u really want to be with someone like that?
2007-02-23 19:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by susieozbornehiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible. i will always love my ex, but i can also love someone else, but he is in a place no one can probably touch. it didn't work out, but we remain friends today. still chat on the phone daily. i value his friendship even if we are not a couple.
2007-02-23 19:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Debt Free! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an X for a reason....you are in love with your boyfriend and love your X...there is a difference....You love your X b/c you have a history with him... you are in love with your boyfriend...stop driving your boyfriend away before he stays away...
2007-02-23 19:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question doing in this section? Are you planning to make a business with your lovers?
2007-02-23 19:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to bad they cant be with someone who is honest...it would be alright if you had nothing to hide and they knew of each other and your fasination with multiple partners...its wrong if you lie about them,and to them.
2007-02-23 19:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋