the boy i am with has a girlfriend he says they been threw a lot but what he tells me what they been threw i been threw it and more but me and him are sleeping together and we have feelings but i know he when the day is over with he loves his girlfriend even more and at this point my love is deep and my feelings are deep and i am at a point that i just can't pull out its easier sayed than done what should i do
2007-02-23 10:53:21 · 7 answers · asked by miss2chi_town 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
realize that if you are going to sleep with men who have girlfriends that you need to do so on a sex only basis and quit being all girly and getting emotionally attached. Sex can be just sex, you don;t have to attach a bunch of useless emotions to it.
2007-02-23 10:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just remember if he will do it with you , he will do it to you. So even if by some miracle he ended up with you instead of her , in no time at all he would be sleeping with someone else and you would be the one getting cheated on. You should have enough respect for yourself to demand honesty and fidelity from your partner. Even if you don't , fake it and eventually you will. Expect and demand more and you will end up finding the right guy who respects you and gives you his whole heart not just what ever time he can sneak away from her.
2007-02-23 19:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As heartbreaking as its gonna be, its time to cut ties with this guy. The bottom line is, even if he decided to leave his girlfriend, could you trust him not to cheat on you?
I'm sure you're gonna find a guy that treats you the way you deserve to be treated, and only wants to be with you. Until then, you gotta do whats right for you, even if its hard to do.
2007-02-23 19:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by eileezy2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself he loves the other girl! I think what he wants from you is sex. Time for you to walk away and find yourself a good man. You deserve to be loved complete and treated with respect. Hold your head high and continue on without him.
2007-02-23 19:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by lucyshines49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay hun, seriously. Why do you wanna be with someone already taken? It only causes pain. You want someone for YOU. Leave him as hard as it may be, but you'll see your man will come. The one your with is a loser, girl open your eyes, you deserve better!
2007-02-23 19:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand that it will be hard to leave a person you are deeply attached to - but the way i see it - if this man can stand to be without you (sleeping with his other girl and all) then you damn sure can stand to be without him.
pls let him be.
2007-02-23 19:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by arewa247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that....why would you want to be with someone who will be with you and someone else too....if he does this to someone he's with and loves, then he'll do that to you too....find you someone else asap before you get hurt!!!!!
2007-02-23 18:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋