We are entering our 4th year of marriage and suddenly I feel like I have less and less in common with my wife.
I feel like a roomate who manages the household rather than a partner and husband.
Is this normal in a relationship?
2007-02-23 10:35:18 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It happens all the time. You...or both of you have lost that initial "spark" that brought you together. Boredom is also a factor to consider. What have you (or she) done lately that is different?
Do you both work? Time to spend with each other? suggestion...turn off the tv, leave it off and do things together (board games, cards, crafts, walks) even if it seems stupid. Sounds like you are just stuck in the marital rut and it happens to all of us. Most of all, spend TIME talking to each other and LISTENING to each other.
2007-02-23 10:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by mom tree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is normal I think. I believe that you should make time to spend with each other. We often get caught up in the daily hussle and bussle of life and forget the important little things of intamacy. After spending months on trying to regain your relationship if nothing has changed then talk with your wife and see how she feels. Maybe the 2 of you together can work it out
2007-02-23 10:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...the four year itch,what is she doing to cause you to feel this way? you should talk to her and tell her how you feel,may be you are in a rut,in which case things can be rearranged so the love you have for each other can be rekindled,as far as this being normal,yes, marriages go through ups and downs and if you stick thru this it will pass.
2007-02-23 11:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when me and my bf moved in together... he was use to letting the women make all the discussion like what is for dinner and such.. it took a while but i finally got him to tell me what he likes.. and then i decided to let him write out a check.. cause he told me he never did that and did not know how.. i thought he was kidding.. i mean at 30 yrs old .. you don't know how.. well he wasn't.. try to help her .. she may just need help in that area.. my bf want to learn .. she may too and just never been able to or had the opportunity
2007-02-23 11:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby takes care of all the bills and makes most of the money. He does the taxes.. and I take care of everything with the kids.. and cleaning and cooking.. while i do a part time job.
2007-02-23 10:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ B1tchHere ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal, no. Common, yes.
Sorry
2007-02-23 10:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by mzunderstood182 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two just be lazy.
2007-02-23 10:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋