If yes, why? If no, why not?
I wish I did. It was one of the biggest mistakes in my life. I had the chance and I blew it.
2007-02-23 10:34:10 · 22 answers · asked by Taylor 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I was ready to be married to my first love, he was interested in another woman. They got married, it didn't last. Now after 19 years, we have a chance to be together, and I can't wait. I would marry him tomorrow if he asked!
2007-02-23 12:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feeling this way because your not emotionally getting what u need out of your marriage, and it is so easy to look back in the past and think a mistake was made, and maybe it was. but u are married to someone else, u don't know if the man is still there, can't think he is still waiting for u. but stranger things have happened. if your not happy with your husband, try to communicate more, if u can't, get a divorce, and find someone else. yes some go back to a past love, and if the timing is right, than there is a good chance of it working out again. but get a divorce first, do things right, don't cheat on anyone, no matter how unhappy u feel.
2007-02-23 11:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a time I did wish I had. But now when I look back on it I am glad I didnt. There were somethings such as his controlling behavior and overbearing ways that I was extremely blind to at the time I loved him. Looking back I know it would have never worked.
However we are still friends and the thing that made me real glad I didnt marry him is watching him and the way he treats his wife and kids. Honestly I would have killed him by now (or him me) if we got married.
Great, wonderful memories many of which can never be topped but I am glad to have them as just memories.
2007-02-23 10:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did marry my first love. It's great in a lot of ways. It's cool to tell your kids their dad was your first love. But after a while things change. I still love him very much. But people change a whole lot. My husband of 22 years is a great person. But when we first met he was really into us, after a while he became kinda selfish. We all change a lot over the years. The loves still there but its different love. I wonder sometimes what it would have been like to date other people. ( I wouldn't cheat). That's probably the only downside. But I guess you can't miss what you didn't have.
2007-02-23 10:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by sassygirl8240 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not even sure who my "first love" was... I think it was Paul McCartney... And yes, sometimes I wish I was married to him. LOL
I think you made a decision you made for a reason. Don't waste time regretting the past, or wondering "what if?" Build your future. Or else, later you will be regretting the fact that you spent so much time regretting, and so little time appreciating what you had. Good luck.
2007-02-23 10:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forget your first love however I am glad I did not marry the first guy that came into my life. I will always be wondering what it would be like to go out with other guys. I would of missed out on a great deal of experience.
2007-02-23 12:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that maybe it didn't happen for a reason??
If i would have married my first love and had kids with him...then i would be a widow..he died of lung cancer 6 years after we split up..I believe that we didn't get married because God did not want me and my kids to deal with losing a husband and a father..you can look at it that way..God could have other plans for you..
2007-02-23 10:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did marry my first love. He was an alcoholic and an asshole. We got divorced and I am now married to someone else. Maybe you weren't meant to be married to your first love. Some things in life are hard to understand.
2007-02-23 10:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i visit assert this. My little ones dad has a lot of money (tens of millions) we tried to artwork issues out. he's a jerk and cheated maximum of instances on me. I definitely have dated astounding adult adult males too. So with that being stated i might somewhat marry for love, than money!!! yet once you've gotten the two why no longer!!
2016-11-25 19:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by kemmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how you define "first love" really. I am divorced and I married the first and (so far) only woman I have ever loved. She is a creep. I love her, still, but cannot live with her! Maybe, one day, I will meet a woman who loves me as much as I love her. And she will then be, truly, my first love.
2007-02-23 11:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋