my bfs mom just told us we couldnt see each other anymore. for no reason whatso ever. and i mean whatsoever. I'm depressed, and feel like dying, he still loves me and wants us to go out, but how can i when i know it makes her unhappy? i can't make 2 people happy at the same time who want different things?
2007-02-23 10:10:17 · 20 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was too tired to figure out which category it was in. So I picked one randomly. He's 15 and I'm 16. We're both in love. and don't want to be separated.
2007-02-23 10:22:10 · update #1
I will echo some of the sentiments above. You sound quite young so I'm sure this feels very devastating to you.
And I'll bet his Mom feels like there is a reason. You may never know what it is but for some reason she feels like you two aren't good for each other (mostly her son).
You can try to to respectfully ask the reason why, but I wouldn't count on a response (a truthful one anyway).
If you're really feeling so depressed that you feel like dying, please talk to someone immediately. If not a parent, then some other trusted adult. I know this feels like the end of the world, but trust me, it's not. You will find MANY loves in your lifetime.
2007-02-23 10:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Susan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give things a days or two to settle down & then calmly talk to your mom about how you feel. She may have a good reason for not wanting you tosee your boyfriend, but she may not know the whole story. It's certainly not the end of your life. Things will get better.
2007-02-23 18:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sandi Beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.......time will heal all of this. I'm sure there's a reason why his mom is acting that way. Chill out, she just may change her mind in time. Just remember, they do have a lot of people with a lot worse problems in the world then this.....so think of things that way. Best of luck in the future.
2007-02-23 18:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tragic thing when someone's life is over at 16.
I think you will figure out it hasn't even really begun yet.
Why don't you go over to his house and ask to sit down and talk to his mother, ask her her reasoning behind forbidding him to see you, and address her concerns.
If you sit and talk calmly and maturely, she will respect that and be more willing to work something out.
It's never as bad as it seems, just hang in there.
2007-02-23 19:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through this, unfortunately your BD is going to have to be the one who steps up for you...there is not much you can do, but maybe backing off a bit and letting things play out. let your BF be a man and tell his mother he is going to see you. If you try to push the issue, his mother will make sure to make your life miserable.
2007-02-23 18:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same this happened to me but my mom said i couldnt see my boyfriend....what you can do is ask you boyfriend to send you mom flowers or a gift if that doesnt work. go on a date and tell ur parent ur going to the movies with your friends or phone and email each other.
it will get better â¥
2007-02-23 18:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Allie♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your life is not over, just a temporary upset, u will feel depressed for awhile. have u spoken to the boys mom, if u still love him and he loves u, u will find a way to mend it with the mom, and get back together. just accept it for now, till u can find a way, pray for what u want to happen.
2007-02-23 18:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is lucky to have a mom that will make a call like. Why didn't your mom see the same thing.
You'll get over it. Things like this is what changes you from a child to an adult.
2007-02-23 18:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are the 2 of you?
2007-02-23 18:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by Astro Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are over 18, who cares what your BF's mom says, if you're a minor, unless you sneak around, I guess its kinda over. If you are a minor and you two really want to be together, maturely approach his mom together and find out why. Be respectful to her and she will likely show you respect in return.
2007-02-23 18:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋