ok i have a little bit of a "tummy" on me and i really like this guy whose been friends w/ me forever. I'm not hopelessly overweight, but I was wondering if guys still like u if u arent the thinnest girl on earth??
2007-02-23 09:48:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Does it matter? Never compromise yourself for a guy. If you can't love yourself, you shouldn't be trying to love someone else. Men come and go but you will always have yourself. It is not worth it. If he can't look past a little extra weight, especially since he already knows you, why would you want him?
2007-02-23 10:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Koko Butta Kream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'll answer as a guy since most the respondants have been women. The old saying is right "different strokes for different folks". It means that everyone has different tastes. I personally don't like girls that are too fat OR too skinny. I like moderation in all things. And if you have a crappy personality it might not matter how you look. However, there are guys out there who only want to date wafer thin women and there's even guys out there who only go for overweight women. Not to mention guys that focus on specific parts (eyes, boobs, butt, etc)
In_Love is right though. If he's already your friend you have a leg up, because he likes you already. You've already got a foot in the door.
Try flirting with him a bit. I'll be willing to bet he's considered it once or twice ;-)
2007-02-23 18:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’ve never been skinny (I’m 5’7” and my waist is about 29”), there were times when I was even bigger and I never complained about lack of admirers, while my stick think cousin was always left out. Beauty is only skin deep and if someone can see past that and love you for your personality, wittiness, great sense of humor etc then you got yourself a winner. And if a guy has a problem with how you look, well then eh did not deserve you in a first place.
2007-02-23 17:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey of course guys will still like you even if ur not pencil thin. trust me. if u wanna lose ur tummy do situps every day. make a goal and push it. if the says he doesnt liek u because of ur weight then he is not the rite guy for anyone at all because if hes only after looks it wont get him anywhere with women(unless they r sluts and whores). but good luck!
2007-02-23 17:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by dancerbabe32506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes most guys don't like sticks but curves. If u want to get rid of your tummy workout and eat right.
2007-02-23 19:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm, yeah! i know that i am not a guy, but i got 2 things to say to your question.
1. if he was your friend, wouldn't he already accept you as a person...especcialy if you guys were BFFs.
2. CONFIDENCE!!! even if you are'nt the thinniest girl, confidence will attract any guy, so walk with your head up instead of straing at the floor all day.
2007-02-23 17:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Banana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mmm.. let's just put it this way... well, I still had suitors while I was plump and had a few boyfriends even...
But after I lost 15kg within 2 months. I had MORE suitors and could take my pick. And instead of people I like not liking me but liking other slim girls.. people I like started to like me as well ;) Hahaha...
2007-02-24 12:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of guys who don't care about that sort of thing. In fact, some guys like girls who aren't too thin. And some guys like their ladies plump and well-fed.
So just ask him already.
2007-02-24 19:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Doctor T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋