I only hang out with girls because the boys at my school are insane. Now everyone calls me a lesbian because I hang out with girls. How do I get the people to consider me as straight? (which I am)
2007-02-23 09:47:32 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She who excuses herself accuses herself.
People will believe what they WANT to believe regardless of what you tell them. You cannot control their thoughts so it's time to stop caring what they think.
2007-02-23 11:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the "people" calling you a lesbian are really girls, say "Eww, go away, you're not my type, find another girl." This rather turns it back on them, while not admitting to being a lesbian at the same time." And then laugh to show them how silly they are being.
2007-02-23 10:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Must Bug You That They Are Calling You That Because You Have Doubts About Yourself..Stop Worrying About What Other People Say About You If You Knwo Your Not Your Not Then. :)
2007-02-23 12:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other kids don't call you a lesbian because you hang out with girls; they call you a lesbian because it so obviously bothers you.
2007-02-23 09:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your too young for me to take issue with.
BUT you point out the other students (boys mostly,, are insane)
So why should you give what the spit they think or say.
Your there for a few years.. gather a few close friends invite them home,, some must have brothers with brains.
2007-02-23 10:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say I agree completely with "Herr Doktor" on this one.
Kids only repeatedly tease others because they get a rise out of their victims.
Because it bothers you so much, they continue to do it.
Here's a novel Idea...get one of your friends to agree to freak these boys out by making out with you in the hallway next time they say that....
Then just have fun with it.
Seriously
I was teased in high school so to get those who were teasing me to stop, I played along with the tease and showed them I had a good sence of humor.
Once they say that their teasing wasn't bothering me, they left me alone and went on to something else to occupy their time.
2007-02-23 10:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a wild school. Insane guys....etc. etc. Fake like you are a lesbian...just for fun. Their reactions will be entertaining.
2007-02-23 09:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
What other people think or say about you does not determine what you are -- you decide that yourself.
Quit worrying about what crazy people say about you. They are just upset that you won't go out with them.
2007-02-23 09:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to grow up. You make your own decisions in life, not anyone else. Therefore if you are comfortable with your own decisions in life then who cares what others will say!
2007-02-23 09:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by waggy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say it's because you think guys are insane right now
2007-02-23 10:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋