I've been with my bf 4 over 6 months. No sex. Plenty of oral (more him than me). Ive seen him checking women out, found straight porno sites in his browser history, & he acts like the gay & bi scene just doesnt do it 4 him. But 2day I found 3 unmarked dvd copies of movies that were transvestite pornos. All the videos before that I came across were straight pornos so this is a 1st. People keep asking me if he's either a virgin or gay because he & I havent gone all the way. I know that he gets movie copies (including porn) for his friends 2. When I asked him the last time 2 go all the way with me recently, he finally told me he wasn't ready 2 go down that road yet, 2 much responsibility for him. He acts like he enjoys me being with him. But I am uncertain of these recent events. I love him but I want 2 get married & have family 1 day but not if he secretly wants to go down a different path, in which I cant follow. But I love him so much. He's 30 & Me 25, both new 2 relationships
2007-02-23 09:32:10 · 3 answers · asked by Curious Georgina 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why don't you try this & see what happens. When he gets home have the transvestite dvds in your hand & tell him that you never knew he was so kinky & that you love guys who dress-up as girls. Ask him if he'd let you dress him up just as pretty as the transvestites in the dvds, then dress him up & have your way with him. What he probably wants is to be the girl & have you take the lead & you should probably get his 2 friends to dress-up also. My guess is that they're all transvestites & the reason he doesn't want to have sex is because his legs are shaved & the rest of his body is too, I bet he's waiting for his body hair to grow back, but make him shave it when you dress him up.
You should dress him up one evening & invite his 2 friends over. Have them arrive together & when they, ask them who wants to dress-up first, or dress-up When they get there & see him dressed as a girl, just ask them who's next.
2007-02-23 22:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't mean he is bisexual or gay. He may just have a fetish for transvestites. People who are into BDSM don't want to spend all of their time being whipped and bound. He may just have a sexual kink that he is trying to explore.
But then again, it might just be that he finds tranny porn funny. Guys are strange like that.
In any event, if it is really bothering you, just talk to him about it.
2007-02-25 18:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a male, they do strange things
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2007-02-27 16:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋