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i dont know if it i wrong for me 2 be homophobic

2007-02-23 09:24:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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what does homophobic mean?

it is okay if someone does not like or accept gays. that lifestyle is WRONG, regardless of what anyone says.

that was NOT GOD'S plan for man.

it is wrong to be homosexual, and wrong to be homoliberal.

btw, i love the female anatomy, and i want an authentic female. i won't have it any other way.

2007-02-23 09:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by realstylesint'l 5 · 0 0

Everybody is entitled to thier opinion. However, dislikng an individual based on thier bedroom activity is just PLAIN OLE IGNORANT!! I submit unto you, people that fear ANYTHING are those who are improperly educated on the subject matter or in your case lack of knowledge. My question to you, is why are you homophobic? Did you have a bad experience with someone who is/was gay? Is it something that stems from your childhood ie molestation by someone of the same sex or even more importantly is it because you, yourself, have some personal demons of your own that your are wrestling with. In my own personal observation, I've found that those who are blatantly homophobic are either themselves gay and in the closet(and it's so much easier to divert the attention from yourself and onto someone who's openly gay) or just plain ole ignorant. Sad to say that society's perception of what a gay person is has become completely miscontrued and sensationalized by the media. We(and I say we because I'm an African American Male who is gay) have been projected as effeminate males, who over-articulate expressions by dramatic hand gestures, hand on the hip, miss thing this or that, when that is so far from the truth. Additionally, we've been portrayed as drug users and to be very promiscuous. While that maybe true for some, it doesn't hold true for all. What I recommend to you, is that you spend some time volunteering with an organization that deals exclusively with gay people(Like PFLAG- Parents and Friend of Lesbian and Gays or at a gay clinic). That way all the negative stigmatism or reservations you have, concerning gay people will be put to rest. Once you've had a positive interaction with a gay person, then perhaps your views concerning homosexuality, will change. BY NO MEANS am I attempting to force my lifestyle on anyone. People seem to think that we are somehow "different". We go through the same ups & down, highs and lows as our heterosexual counterparts. So why do you view us differently to the point where you are downright afraid? Again I say, lack of education, leads to ignorance, which warrants fear. Regardless of what the masses say, there's nothing blissful in being ignorant. When are you going to end it?
Be Blessed

Al Green

2007-02-23 09:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Al G 1 · 0 0

Well, "phobic" refers to an irrational fear. Most phobias can be treated through behavior therapy. If you mean is it wrong to dislike or disapprove of the lifestyle, well that's your business. Is it wrong to discriminate or take some harmful action against homosexuals, just because they are homosexuals, I think yes it is wrong.

2007-02-23 09:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Memo Erdes 3 · 0 0

i dont think it is sumtin you can help but i wouldnt go around saying it to everyone that you are homophobic that would call for controversies between you and the individuals. just keep your mouth shut. dont be an asshole about it....plus my boyfriend is and he does not announce to the whole world....

2007-02-23 09:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by iyishab08 2 · 0 0

to be "phobic" of anything means a great fear...what do you really have to be afraid of? that some gay man will attack you? rape you? do you secretly desire that? if not, then you realize how silly your fear is...a gay man is only seeking someone who wants him back. the same goes for heterosexual people, a man only seeks a woman who wants him, and vise-versa. noone is hiding in the bushes ready to jump out and grab you! it's people like Jerry fALLWELL, WHO PROFESS TO BE SUCH GREAT cHRISTIANS, WHO HAVE MADE THE WORLD BELIEVE THAT BEING HOMOSEXUAL ALSO MEANS BEING A SEX-CRAZED DEVIANT. (sorry, not angry, caps lock accidently on.) Homosexuals only want what other people want...to live in peace, and have rights.

2007-02-23 09:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

1. Is it wrong to be afraid of black people or asians or jews?
2. Homophobia has been strongly linked with repressed homosexual tendencies.

So, it's not wrong except that if you are, you're probably suppressing the desire to have man gravy in your mouth and this suppression will only result in psychological strife.

2007-02-23 09:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

It's a free country; you can chose to like or dislike anyone you want. I would suggest you don't discriminate or hurt others. Hating someone is a slippery slope; I would suggest you not hate anyone for your own well being.

2007-02-23 09:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ron P 3 · 0 0

I could believe maximum people... this is no longer inevitably incorrect, this is basically lack of information. i think of the element you may desire to do is handle the reason of you concern. as quickly as you recognize why you're petrified of the gays then you definately can in line with danger triumph over it and concern not greater.

2016-10-01 21:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by hardage 4 · 0 0

Yes because you are acting on an irrational fear. If you studied the facts, you would see that homosexuality is not harmful and that you have no rational reason to fear it.

2007-02-23 09:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No it is not wrong. Everyone has the right to thier own opinions about life!

2007-02-23 09:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by DaNeCoOk Is HiLaRiOuS 4 · 0 0

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