my hubby is really nto sex and im not creative like him.im still a virgin.we didnt do sex as he left for another country right after marriage and i'll be going there in nov:)I REALLY LOVE HIM A LOT.so i wana give him a real good time.how can i satisfy him.plz give me some tips.also how can i make myslf more attracted towards sex.is there any way i can get online videos for free.i also find it hard to masterbate on the phone and it pisses him off.plz help me.
2007-02-23 09:19:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1) You should NEVER do anything sexually you are not totally comfortable with. He's a man and can masturbate without insisting you do too, whether he likes it or not.
2) 'Tips' will only give you ideas, good technique comes with experience.
3) If he loves you the fact you waited and are still a virgin should be enough for him.
4) Try to relax and enjoy your reunion. If he is experienced let him lead until you are more experienced.
2007-02-23 09:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to feel more comfortable looking at yourself nude. it will take time to feel comfortable with sex since you are new to this and your hubby needs to understand also. talk to him and let him teach you how to pleasure him and ask him to explore your body first and let him know what feels good to you. take a dancing class like belly dancing its very exotic and easy to learn. and when your on the phone with him you really don't need to masturbate since he cant see you just pretend! or how about you just talk very dirty to him and let him masturbate to your moans and groans. also you can go to a sex store and look around you don't need to buy anything just browse around and you'll get some ideas!
2007-02-23 09:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by ladopey909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife to be was a virgin when i saw her the first time and we talk for three day and took our time she was so scare and a year later she said she was so happy i took my time with her just remember youre giving your husband the greatest gift a women can give good luck
2007-02-23 10:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good time to visit your local library or bookstore and find out all you need to know about sexual pleasure.
2007-02-23 09:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are married and still a virgin?
You need more help than Yahoo! answers can give you.
2007-02-23 09:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something does not feel right here.Are you 14?
2007-02-23 09:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try masturbating yourself.....know what makes you feel good and then you can express it to him...maybe try a few sex toys...as far as pleasing him goes just make yourself available to him for sex....communicate with him about what the two of you want
2007-02-23 09:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by kevin c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are married and yet you are a virgin?
i guess i am a virgin daily myself,, its magic.
2007-02-23 09:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋