..ok....here goes my story..well today at school...i told something to my friend...then she got mad..and now she wont listen to me!!and im so sad....i dont know what to do..now..she think i hurt her feeling..and now she doesnt want to be my friend anymore...!!and now im really sad..i try to talk to her but she doesnt want to talk to me never again!!please help!!!tell me what to do to get her back to be my friend again!
2007-02-23 09:12:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she keeps ignoring me all the time!!im trying to get her to listen to me..but she just makes me sad to know that she hates me now!!!!!!!!please people!!!give me good anwers!!if ur going to put bad stuff then dont put anything!!please help!!give me certain anwers!!
2007-02-23 09:19:21 · update #1
I would suggest waiting it out, personaly that has always worked for me, and frankly their is not much more you can do. If you keep trying to talk to your friend they will most likely get more annoyed with you causing an opposite affect.
2007-02-23 09:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by BRANWILL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you really want to keep her as your friend then don't give up. Keep trying to talk to her . If she's really your friend then sooner or later she'll forgive you and listen to you! She's just mad right now, When she realizes that you really mean it when you say you're sorry then everything will be allright again! But be careful that it doesn't happen again or you might lose her again, for good this time!Another thing, friends get mad at each other all the time, usually it blows over ! So just keep showing her that you are her friend!!
2007-02-23 17:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friendship can be really complicated. You have already done all that you can. You apologized, and then you asked her to listen. All you can do is waite. If you pressure her to much she will likely keep ignoring you. Either because she is still mad, or it is easier not to face you.
What did you say to her? Were you upset with her when you told her this thing that made her mad? I would just waite and back off a bit. Give her time to cool down and then see what will happen. If you cannot solve it on your on then go to the school counselor I am sure she would be happy to help.
2007-02-23 17:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is apologize. If she cannot accept this right now, give her space and time and try to talk to her again in a week or month. Sometimes people just need time for the hurt to wear off a little. Sometimes they want to move on and you have to let them do that even though it makes you sad.
2007-02-23 17:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Safira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you did hurt her feeling. Now you should try to talk to her about the problem and tell her that you did not meant it that way. That you never try to hurt her feeling and that you want to work with her about whatever you told her. Is kind of hard try to help you if I don’t know what you told her? About boys, another girl, whatever, so if you want to give me a little more info I may be able to help you a little bite better.
2007-02-23 17:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give her a note with the true thing that you wanted to tell her and then well she would have to read it if she was a true friend then she will come back to you if she is not then well I must say get over it you could find a new friend.
2007-02-23 17:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow!
That happened to me too
My best friend from 3rd grade
got mad cause I went out with her x
I know I know the BFF rule about x's
but she never told me till after we went out
she never talked to me again
~I had to deal with it and find new friends that support me
then
recently
someone I thought to be a friend
is telling everybody to stop being my friend cause
of what I did to my x boyfriend,,x girlfriend
its not right but I deal
~try walking up to her and tell her
that you wanna say how you feel
to her face
even if she doesn't care or wanna hear it
sometimes it will turn around
sometimes it won't
be prepared for anything
Good luck!
2007-02-23 17:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by Wanna_b_with_u...<3 ~KALA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did u say?? must be something terrible that have hurt her feelings like that....next time...u should think before talking or giving ur opinions...
if she wont listen...write her a letter and make sure it's a good one!
good luck
2007-02-23 17:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by deliah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What did u tell her??.. if it was mean she has a right to be mad!.
well if you are being honest for wutever u told her. U are a good friend, if you want to be friends still, talk about why u told her (wutever u said), and ask for forgiveness. tell her u want to be her friend and u dont ever want to hurt her!..if she is a good friend she should forgive u!
2007-02-23 17:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by ShOrTy2* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friend wont listen to you i don't think that's the best friend for you should not be her friend any more i mean i got into a fight with my Friend and I'm not her friend any more because she wasn't listening to me when i was trying to apuliguys to her besides when she was trying to talk to me i listened and well she is so over with we our not friends yet be the brave one no matter how brave you have to be and tell her if she doesn't talk to you them you guys our not friends and never talk to her again maybe just a quick high and bye and that's it just please take my advise
2007-02-23 17:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by Kelsey A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋