Please read till end.This man and I are family friends for decades in love for years.Since family friends,cousin is friends of his,his friends gf is my friend etc he in two minds whether to jeopardise it.Like going out with his friends sister,his friends gfs friend,family friends daughter(you get the idea)I told him its years we havent met we are best friends in love for years i want a man who can be with me so we would remain friends.Its very difficult being around our families,friends etc since he still loves me,i still love him and we are best of friends.He has good intentions he wanted to meet only if he can propose to me.What should i do we are best friends and in love with eachother its hard being so near yet so far but not being able to due to family,friends around us.Im scared as both of us know if we end are left alone by family,friends for somtime we are not going to be able to control ourselves emotionally or physically.Its tortur
2007-02-23 08:43:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
please tell this guy you want to take a break as he is giving more attention not calling emailing chatting saying mean things but still wanting you back by keeping in touch.Tell him he needs to meet you give you attention pamper you.You can tell him a date/time/place to meet after you two have chat/email/call.If he comes to meet pampers you two have proper dates without his friend and your friends then get into physical emotional marriage relationship say yes to his proposal if not move on to who youve known from past who gives you attention pampers you not other way around.i have feeling once you tell him whats wrong and take a break hell come around realising how much he loves u.
2007-02-23 11:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be, it will be. Just go with the flow of things and don't worry so much about what others think. It's the two of you who need to be happy and content with things.
2007-02-23 16:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with yourself and your feelings...if you truly love eachother...and its meant to be...what other people say or do doesn't matter...they should support your love. AS LONG AS THE TWO OF YOU AREN'T RELATED BY BLOOD! Nobody can keep you apart but yourselves.
2007-02-23 16:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by macsmom33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so just get with him, no problem maybe
2007-02-23 16:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whas that a real question???
2007-02-23 16:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by desired1naz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋