My friend that 13 years old is boy crazy! She is making wrong desicions! Now, she is going to have sex! I am very worried about this! It could get very serious! What should I do??
2007-02-23 08:39:38 · 32 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
mind your buisness
2007-02-23 08:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
All you can do as a good friend is let her know you feel she is making a mistake. You can also ask her to rethink this and maybe get some professional opinions anonymously through a warm/crisis line. I suspect that if she is craving this kind of attention at such a young age there maybe family problems. Would she consider talking to a parent? Is there an adult that she trust that she can confide in?She is so young and has her whole life ahead of her. She will grow and change so much that I can assure her she will outgrow this guy she is interested in. She is a child whether she can see it or not. Actually is the guy older? God I hope not.
She has a good friend........
2007-02-23 08:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Tereka Bodika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very smart to reach out for help for her. this sounds like its a bad idea but tell her parents. she will get really mad at you but its really important you do that. she has no place making adult decisions at such a young age. she could get pregnant, raped, contract a disease, and/or regret it (which she will) or lose respect for herself. this is not a time in her life that she should be acting like she is an adult. she needs to focus on school and her family. TELL HER PARENTS, if she has a mom tell her mom.. something awful could happen to her and then you would feel guilty. my sister had sex when she was 13 and told me before she did and i wish i would have told my dad bu ti didn't. then when she was 16 she ran away to new york with an older man. at age 18 she gave birth to a baby and the father is long gone. tell her mom immediately. you may lose her as a friend but thats what friends are for. looking out for one another.
2007-02-23 08:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by tah dumb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend and talk to her without preaching. Ask her intelligent questions like have she thought about pregnancy and protection? Has she thought about the importance of her virginity? Has she thought about the emotional impact? Let her open up, and from there you can try to lead her in the right direction. The last this you want to do is to shun her or be overbearing because she will just rebel.
good luck.
2007-02-23 08:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents. That'll have them keep a closer eye on her. It may not stop her, but it may make her folks more aware of the situation and get her on birth control and have her practice safe sex. Other than that, it's none of you're business and pretty much all you can do. Just be a good friend and learn from her mistakes.
2007-02-23 08:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents. I am not kidding. She is way too young to have sex... there must be something wrong in her life. If her parents don't do anything about it tell a teacher in your school. I'm pretty sure she's below the age of consent. My God, I can't believe what kids are doing these days.
2007-02-23 08:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Principessa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look Hun there is not much you can do about the decisions she is making, all you can do is talk to her tell her your feelings about it and remind her to talk to some one about getting protection.
I hate to say it Hun but your friend is traveling down a road that will definitely alter her life.
She is going to do what she wants to do all you can do is be a good friend and try to talk her out of it.
Take her to talk to an older brother or something have him tell her what guys really think of girls who put out I guarantee she will change her mind real quick. No one wants to know that truth.
2007-02-23 08:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. I can answer this as a mother and as a friend. Tell her you're worried about her. If she is completely out of control and won't listen to anybody, maybe you should give her parents a call. The parents need to step in when it comes to this type of thing.
2007-02-23 08:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by gothmomma_2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well im 13 and my friend was doing the same thing but i just talked to her about what might happen to her and if she wants to make the decision. Just try to talk to her and hope she takes it in.
2007-02-23 08:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by bestsaxplaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like she is not getting enough attention at home. As her friend you can only warn her. If her real issues are not addressed she will eventually go down this path and possible find herself in real trouble.
If you can get someone with more experience involved preferably her parents.
2007-02-23 08:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG...13 is way too young to be thinking about this...I know you have a loyalty to your friend...but her safety and well being is more important at this point...you need to step in and tell someone like her parents...
2007-02-23 08:46:27 · answer #11 · answered by macsmom33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋