whats the best thing i can do for people who believe in bad things?
2007-02-23 08:36:28 · 23 answers · asked by Jody G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
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What they do with that information is their responsibility. God bless, hon.
2007-02-23 13:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all a matter of perception if somethings bad. One person may believe that abortion is wrong and that it should never be done because they believe it is murder. If you disagree with it, then that's okay. We all have our own opinions about things and that's okay! If you believe that something, like abortion, is bad, then go ahead and do so. You can't try to make someone believe what you do just because YOU think it's right. Let them believe what they believe and you can do what you want. It's their opinion and way of life. The best advice I can give you is to leave them be. I hope that this helped. I don't know if this is what you were looking for, but this is the best way that I know of to answer this question. Good luck.
2007-02-23 08:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Dana Mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as someone who believes in certian "bad things" im glad you asked this question. honestly, the best thing you can do is respect us, and our views. PLEASE, dont try to change us or show us the "errors" of our ways. You don't have to agree with us, but don't force you ways on us. If you do get in a discussion with someone about these topics, listen and don't get deffensive. there probally is a reason we feel this way, b/c of someone or something thats happened to us. IF you're someone who believes in the power of prayer, congratulations. IF you feel the need to pray for us, thankyou, but there is a limit. Don't make a big show of it or constantly remind us of it. it can be a bit scary sometimes. so in short, i think the lesson is "do unto others as you would have them do unto you". how would you feel if someone attacked your beliefs and told you they weren't jsut wrong, but you were going to hell for them? (that was just an example, not an attack)
hope that helped and remember, not every person that believes in bad things looks like a bad person. I was raised the catholic girl-next-door and still look the part. I just don't follow the same beliefs as before.
2007-02-23 08:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by beya_gurl618 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully - you will keep an open mind and remember that not every one agrees on whats good or bad. You might think abortion is bad, but until you have been in a persons shoes who is considering an option like that, you really have no clue. We can all sit back and be judgemental and say we would never do such a thing, but until it happens to us, we never know. Trust Me on this one - this is a been there done that, and not proud of it.
2007-02-23 08:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think having an abortion is bad. Especially in today's society. Children are very expensive and not only that, men are not around like they are suppose to be. Some of them want a baby but won't stick around to have one. I have a child and I don't want anymore because of that very reason. And we shouldn't use abortions as a form of birth control but it is so hard to raise a child alone. Especially if you were using contraceptives and still became pregnant. It think it is not fair for the unborn to be born into society fatherless.
Besides we all are entitled to our own opinions I think you would have to be in that person shoes.
2007-02-23 08:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jamonican 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this question all depends i am against abortion at all costs but other people are for it it depends on if you are pregnant and someone is telling you to get an abortion it depends on your age if that is the case and you have no choice that to those people about adoption it is your child and i do not believe that they can force you to get an abortion but adoption is is a hard thing for people to do because you will carry the child for 9 months and have to give the child away there is such a thing called open adoption where the adopting family may let you visit the child and can send you pictures of the child but with the choice of adoption at least you are giving the child a chance of life
2007-02-23 08:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't beleive in abortion either, but for me the best thing has been to focus on positive things I can do regarding the issue. I support sex education and assistance for young and single mothers. I agree it does you no good to "preach" to someone who disagrees with you. If, however, you are worried about someone close to you, offer them assistance with alternatives but without judgement. If they are considering abortion, they probably have enough on their mind without worrying about a close friend turning their back on them.
2007-02-23 09:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing good will come if you attack somebody's beliefs. If you know them well you might be able to get away with telling them that you do not share their belief. If you do not know them, you can paste a bumper sticker to your car or carry a sign, but you can't address them personally.
2007-02-23 08:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by semdot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're including abortion into these so called "bad things" then keep your opinion to yourself.
2007-02-23 08:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Bunny Lebowski 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Be open minded. Allow them to believe what they want without judgement and ask them to do the same for you.
2007-02-23 08:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by Get a life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you believe something is bad doesn't mean it is or that everyone will agree with you. Do what is right for you and don't woryy about everyone else
2007-02-23 08:44:35 · answer #11 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋