she doesn,t call me anymore or come around.she says shes not mad at me or anything . I told her it hurts me that we don't do much anymore and that i miss her.she said " I'm sorry i'm just busy i guess , But I'm not mad " I Call her but if i don't call her or go see her i don't hear from her. Should i keep calling or not?
2007-02-23 08:33:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yea i would keep calling her, and let her know how she makes you feel, after all those years, you have the right to know why she is treating you this way.
2007-02-23 08:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not keep calling. I would reduce my calling to holidays and special occasions. You have already asked her if there was an issue that needs to be resolved and she said "no". So if there is no bad blood and she is too "busy" for her "best friend" then so be it. Find other folks to talk to and hang out with....sooner or later she will come around...and if not, just cherish the good times you two had...and keep it moving!
2007-02-23 16:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Fee4Lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space. Start finding other people to spend time with and other things to do. 1) this will make you feel better about yourself, it will take your mind off not having her around and 2) it will show her that you aren't just going to be there waiting for her and she might want to start taking your friendship a little more seriously.
2007-02-23 16:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont call her any more if she needs you shell be back maybe shes needs some space right know just let it go for know...give her at least 3 weeks shell get over it but if you keep on calling her your going to bore her and if shes going through something then she caint get to you right now give her time
2007-02-23 16:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by sandy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new best friend, hang out with her all the time and blow off the old best friend to get back at her. Actions speak louder than words.
2007-02-23 16:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me too. people change and start hanging out new people and get interested in their boyfriends(if they have one) sometimes more then their best friends. its hurts to have that happen to you but me and my old best friends barely talk anymore. and sometimes when she wants to talk to me i just dont even feel like talking to her cuhz im so disgusted with her. its like she forgot about all her friends excpet for a few she just became better friends with and her boyfriend.
2007-02-23 16:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by sweet stuff21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think im going through the same thing. sucks doesnt it? but sometimes i stop and think that maybe im doing the same to her without thinking about it. i say you schedule a day to talk about whats going on. go somewhere chill.
2007-02-23 16:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by cherrysnowcone08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let a bit of time pass. She will be back
2007-02-23 16:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋