I didnt get a good awnser last time so I am reposting this. Please give me more awnsers and better ones!
I met a guy online that wanted the same as I did fwb. We talked for awhile got to know eachother and when it came time to meet we talked like we were friends. What are the exact detailed rules of fwb. This is my first time having a friends with benifits. So far i like it you feel comfortable talking about anything you want. And then once in awhile you get your needs in bed with no attachments. But how much is too much? Is it 50/50 (half the time being friends and the other half satisfying eachother)? And if this guy got out of a relationship 2 months ago can he get emotionally attached? What should I look out for so I dont get hurt? protection is a must. I dont want a relationship!!!!!!!!!! Too many turned to disaster!
2007-02-23 08:24:21 · 8 answers · asked by somegirl22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A fwb is great as long as the both of you know that is all it is. You can sleep with someone who is just a friend. You know this person, and you probably have a better time. Look out for attachments. If you do not want anything more than friends, but think he does, you need to break it off before it gets too serious. You could end up losing the friendship over it. Discuss with him what you want. Make it perfectly clear that you do not want a relationship. Otherwise, go for it.
2007-02-27 15:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by kmf77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing with my ex boyfriend. FWB means no emotional attachment...period! It's cool to talk about stuff and even cooler to have sex but there shouldn't be any feeling's involved when it comes to "being together". The moment feeling's get involved, your hooked (and that could be bad if he doesn't want to be with you on that level). So, if your cool with just having sex than everything should be fine. It's like the best of both worlds. Watch out though, females get more emotional attached than guys...good luck! :)
2007-02-23 16:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by qutegyrl_81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the capability to not get attached, kudos to you, because I thought it was humanly impossible to spend time with someone, share intimacy and within a long period of time not get a bit attached. But sounds like you know what you want you just need to make sure he knows you like things the way you are and do not want a relationship, not now not ever, he needs to know you aren't going to change your mind or he is going to be looking for a change of heart. That could lead to disaster and blow your friendship out of the water. Good Luck
2007-02-23 16:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by Italia 28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are the one that is beginning to have feeling towards this guy. If you believe that his friendship towards you is only because he is receiving a good time in the sack with you then you should break off this friendship. It is not good to have fwb anyway. This person should want to be your friend because he want a friend not because he wants to use you. And if you are beginning to fall for this guy you should get out of this situation as soon as possible. If he can't be just a friend to you then he is not worth having around .
Good Luck!
2007-03-02 10:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend with benifits is a bullcrap term that sounds better than F***Buddies. What it boils down to is we will have all of the fun without the relationship. There are no rules except don't get attached emotionally.
2007-02-23 16:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If no commitment works for both of you, basically you are just using each other.If you can stay detached fine. Personally my emotions do not work that way and I would get involved even if I hadn't started out that way. I couldn't and wouldn't do it, I think it works better for males. Good luck whatever your decision.
2007-02-23 16:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can get emotional for either of u thou u agreed fwb cus it happened 2me i dont want a relationship and i explained it 2her but u cant stop how they feel about u emotionally. u have 2keep lettin him or her know everytime thats what i have 2do its a pain thou. so use ur best judgement about it. stay safe,real straight up
2007-02-23 16:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by slimsoulja70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think a set of guidelines exists.You have to work out your own deal.
2007-02-23 16:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋