My girlfriend is acting like a flake these days!?
I've been really cool with my friend Kim for almost a year now, but she recently met this guy and she's completely dropped off the face of the earth. I mean, I haven't heard from her and when I do it's because she want's me to go somewhere with her (so she doesn't have to go alone) it has nothing to do with hanging out with me :( The funny thing is she told me that an ex friend of hers stopped talking to her for this exact same thing! So, I feel like she should know better. Why do some girls ditch their friends when they meet a guy? Then when that guy acts like an ***, they want their girlfriend around for advice and support ( by then the girl feels used and really could care less). Even when we go out, she'll ditch me to talk to some guy the whole night...didn't we arrive together? I think that is so rude! I have no problem with a girl having a relationship but don't ditch your girls. Females should remember to continue to have their own seperate lives. What do you think?
2007-02-23 08:22:07 · 5 answers · asked by qutegyrl_81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh my gosh, I can't stand when that happens! It's as if people completely forget that you were their friend and were there for them through trying times. Well, my advice is to stay busy and find other friends to hang out with. Most likely she'll come back when she has a fight with the guy or something. Start blowing her off for a while and see how she reacts.
2007-02-23 08:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must agree with you, that cause you get a boyfriend, that does not give you the right to use your female friends, when he is not around. Girls for years have been going out and having fun, even when they are married. It is just something that both genders need to do once in a while. But dumping your friends are not right, then thinking that they are always going to be waiting for you,,well that is not right. You need to have a talk with her, and tell her how you feel, and what you see her doing to her once really good friends, over some guy that may not even last 6 months.
2007-02-23 16:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL! if she gets mad then oh well. It's for the best. You may end up saving her from something in the long run if you talk to her about it.
2007-02-23 16:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by dr_mctwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to remind her of what happen to her ex friend and let her know that shes acting like a fool.
2007-02-23 16:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by sandy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you gay?
2007-02-23 17:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Tingting♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋