2007-02-23 08:11:09 · 24 answers · asked by karen l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is not divorced because we live in ireland it takes years here. divorce only came in here in the last 4 yrs. i know him well and trust him. i like him alot.
2007-02-23 08:34:59 · update #1
I have been legally seperated for three years and i don't think i am committing adultery. There is absulotely no chance that me and my ex husband will ever get back together.
I have moved on from him so i consider that i am not doing anything wrong with my new boyfriend.
Oh for those wondering why we haven't got a divorce yet.. i cant afford it and he is to cheap to pay for one..
2007-02-23 08:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Legally no, it's not considered adultery. That is she cannot divorce him on the claim that he was having an adulterous affair with you, since they are legally separated.
Now, on a personal note: If he isn't divorced in 3 years, then he doesn't want to get divorced. If he was sure the relationship was broken beyond repair he would have divorced her w/out the legal separation. I say get out, and find a nice guy who's not attached or hanging onto an old relationship. Believe me, you're not the first he's seen since the separation, and you're not going to make him take that last step to finalize it.
2007-02-23 08:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Stephie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel that it is. My BF is still leagally married and SC does not have legal separations. Since my BF is not my lawful spouse, it is adultery. I did my own divorce without an attorney. It's affordable. Dating someone single is a hell of a lot better. At least it's not as hurtful. I will never understand why anyone would want to remain legally married for years when it's over.
2007-02-23 08:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by meganzopf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until there are divorce papers, HE IS MARRIED and it is adultery. It doesn't matter if they have been separated for 3 years. I would be very sceptical of this one, why doesn't he get the divorce? I would want that question answered and answered completely.
2007-02-23 08:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jill R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It IS to have sex with a married person, but not just going places. But, why would you want to? He's married. Yeah, yeah, separated- but why hasn't he gotten divorced? Divorce doesn't take years. Date single people. It's much better.
2007-02-23 08:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she dedicated adultery he might have divorced her. it truly is the single proper reason for divorce interior the bible. He might have then been unfastened to marry you - possibly no longer in his church, via fact they could no longer settle for what the bible says on that project, yet in God's eyes he might have been unfastened to marry you if he had divorced her for adultery. study this passage. Mathew 5:32 "yet I say unto you, That whosoever shall placed away his spouse, saving for the reason for fornication, causeth her to dedicate adultery: and whosoever shall marry her it truly is divorced committeth adultery." it truly is asserting that a guy can divorce his spouse, if she has been untrue, and marry back. you're able to discover it much less complicated to study in a distinctive version from this one that's ok.J.V. it truly is a shame which you moved in with him previously he became divorced via fact now all 3 of you have dedicated adultery. besides the shown fact that, God is a forgiving God and in case you confess your sins previously God he will forgive. you ought to now stay aside until his divorce comes by way of - if that's what he intends doing. If he will no longer look for a divorce then you definitely ought to plot a existence without him or be arranged to be seen an adultress for the the remainder of your existence and, relying on the place you reside, this may be a extensive burden to undergo.
2016-12-14 04:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not adultery unless he is committed to his wife. Being that they are separated, it seems to suggest that there is no committment. However, I would ask myself why after 3 years he's not divorced yet.
2007-02-23 08:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..
why after 3 years he didnt get divorced?
No.I dont think it is adultery only "to go out" with a still married man.
But, I think it is adultery, to sleep with him, in the circumstances he is actually.
How much do you know him?
As some other answerers said....some men say that to get some women , so.........as fucose_man said...check, check, check..........and keep checking
2007-02-23 08:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by حلاَمبرا hallambra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it is. Why has he been legally separated for three years? They should be divorced already.
2007-02-23 08:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Nisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have REALLY been separated all those years and she is just being difficult on giving the divorce, I would say not really. BUT, I would be VERY suspicious about whether it was real. Check check check....
2007-02-23 08:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋