My best friend whos a girl loves me to death and i love her, but i asked her out 3 times she says she not rdy for a boyfriend yet but shes the nicest person she doesnt cheat or anything...i dont know wat to do but i keep flirting and she flirts back...plz help...what should i do...
2007-02-23 08:09:51 · 18 answers · asked by Arron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think u should make her see...how special u are....Mayb wen u ask her she's in the mind frame of not being rdy....But show her that she really deserves u....make her come to you....make her ask u....
2007-02-23 08:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she says she isn't ready for a boyfriend...I would take that very literally. ( More than likely likes you as a friend or isnt interested). If you press forward after hearing that you will only appear as a desperate guy. Move on darling and see whats out there. She will not be theonly person pn the planet you will be intrigued with. Be choosy. Don't be to preoccupied with love and live your own life...that is when true love finds it way into your heart. ;-)
2007-02-23 16:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to Respect her decision that she's not ready for a boyfriend* Perhaps she's never had one before...or with her family custom..she may have to be a certain age first before dating. She may be the nicest person who doesn't cheat as who will she cheat with?? She doesn't "date" right now.
Flirting is fine...fun between two ppl...I think you should just talk to her more....Tell her you Respect her decision not to date right now as she's not ready.........maybe a group of you can go do something fun one afternoon(bowling or something) not just the two of you, that way it's not really a date..it's a fun afternoon with friends (boys and girls) GOODLUCK*
2007-02-23 16:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to have fun, there may be a reason as to why this girl is not ready for a boyfriend. try and talk to this girl and see what the problem is if any, she may not want to risk the friendship that you both have together. As sometimes things don't end well and you may never have this girl as a friend again. this also happened to me and we never went out. and stayed friends for a long time.
just remember to keep talking and see what time may bring.
2007-02-23 16:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kylie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it some time, do not push the issue because it might scare her off. Just keep doin what you do and hopefully within time your wishes will come true. Look at it this way if she is not ready for a boyfriend at least you know she will not be out dating other guys making you jealous.
2007-02-23 16:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jeannie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to be a lot easier for a girl to be just friends than it is for a guy. I think after 3 times she truly just loves you as a friend and you should focus your romance elsewhere. The best way to know for sure is to start dating someone else and her true feelings will show immediately.
2007-02-23 16:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by citymuchacha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy just being around. She will let you know when she is ready for a boyfriend. If she chooses you thats great. If she chooses someone else, her best friend will be the first to know...that's you right?
2007-02-23 16:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the time she needs or you will just push her away and may ended up losing her as a friend also.
2007-02-23 16:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by Vicki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on being best friends for now. I'm sure your friend will let you know when she's ready to date.
2007-02-23 16:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend is a girl, then you have more problems than you are letting on.
2007-02-23 16:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Brain_scurvey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋