Well I recived 22 answers and only 2 said I should worry. Dont know if you have seen my additional details. But she did say that they do answer the door in the nude and they sit and talk for hours with nothing on. If you say not to worry I wont. Thank You
2007-02-23 08:01:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If they are gay then they are not interested in her other than as a friend. I'm wondering if it is YOU who is insecure in your own sexuallity that you would find a gay man a threat to your relationship with her.
2007-02-23 10:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, since I haven't seen the other question. I'm telling you NOT to worry. Now if you are using the correct term they are gay (men) and believe it or not they are not interested in your wife, she doesn't come with the "optional sports package" if you will.
Now, I have gay friends, I have never gone to their house where they answered the door naked, and sat around without clothes. Now, that could be just their (your wife's friends) comfort zone, but out of respect I think I would insist they put on a robe or something.
I guess the real question is why is your wife wanting to spend so much time with them, sounds like she might be having a little fantasy about them. In that case I would be concerned. Ask her, find out what the "attraction" is over there, if she says their friends, great. But why do they have to sit around naked? I can say not to worry, but you really should at least talk to her and let her know how you feel without forbidding her to see them again.
2007-02-23 08:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how much you trust your wife. I would be very uncomfortable with it if it was my gay friends. If it makes you uneasy tell her. Ask her to ask them to put on some clothes. How many people walk around in the nude around their friends? It just seems weird to me. However it doesn't mean that she is cheating.
2007-02-23 09:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Cannuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say worry. First of all I don't believe in men with men and women with women. If you hang around long enough curiosity will get the best of you. If it hasn't already. Would you care?
2007-02-23 08:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're gay. They don't want her. My best friend is a gay man. Don't worry, there is nothing going on there. Trust me. Unless she grows a penis, she's safe.
2007-02-23 08:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ,you have a unique situation there ,well you should probably trust your wife I know you feel uncomfortable ...who doesn't!!! but is also possible that a gay always follow nature and also want to became bi-sexual. but is up to her no you .
Good luck !!!!!!
2007-02-23 08:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by eagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its funny but i wouldnt' worry they aren't what you think your wife is firends with them they mean no harm and are good friends ib et. they are sometimes better friends then anyone can have.
2007-02-26 15:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'ld say don't worry , be happy that your wife is so open and not offened .
2007-02-23 08:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋