okay...first off i met a guy that i like so far as to what i know about him...im pretty sure he likes me cause he was asking me questions like do u have a bf, and how old i am and stuff like that...he talks to me alot, he hugs me and pinches my side in like a friend way...he's 20 and im 17...be 18 in may...
after he asked if i had a bf, i asked him if he had a gf...well he goes i have a wife and then he like but she cheats on me....and i asked why hes still with her and he said bc they have a kid
so my question is what am i supposed to do, if he likes me and i like him?
2007-02-23 07:52:03 · 18 answers · asked by sweet18apparatus 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i am in the same predicament Sweet! it's soooo confusing. my advice; you only live once. go for it!
2007-02-23 07:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by pswmommy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are too young to know this but if a man wants to cheat on his wife the VERY first thing he is going to say is either she is cheating on me or it's been over for a long time were just here for the kids. Do not do this and start your relationship career as being a home wrecker. I seriously doubt this women is cheating on her husband BUT if she is then it is not any of your business. If he knows it, he should confront her, work it out through counseling OR get a divorce, the right answer is definitely NOT cheating on her as well. Also, you are too young to get involved in baby mama drama. If he is 20 I am sure his child isn't very old. If you did pursue this, they get divorced the mama is more than likely to resent you for their divorce and use the child as a way to damage your relationship with this guy. You are way too young for all of this. Concentrate on school/college and wait until you find someone more suitable for you. Good luck.
2007-02-23 16:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wasn't married with a kid I'd say "Let the games begin!" But the reality is he has responsibilities that will ALWAYS be there. What do you really expect to get from this? Do you want to be baby mama #2? Certainly there is no chance of a real relationship. He will always have to put his child and his wife first. If he doesn't then he is a bad man you wouldn't want to be involved with anyway. Plus, put yourself in the shoes of the wife - regardless of whether she cheats or not. They are MARRIED! Find yourself a nice young man without kids and without a wife and build with him.
2007-02-23 15:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by CurlyLocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, RUN AWAY, He's going to cheat back with you and your going to get hurt in the end. TRUST ME-BEEN THERE, DONE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!! He's 20, and your only 17 going on 18 in a few months, do you really want the headaches????? I wouldn't if I was in that type of situation.
2007-02-23 16:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by tommy55925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this guy!!! Many men who cheat can come up with all kinds of excuses why it's justified when it reality, is it ever??!! If he was so unhappy with her he would leave, child or not. You know better, right?
2007-02-23 15:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. if he is comfortable doing this while married he is trouble for you. You don't know if she cheats on him anyway, you only have his word. Either way this is not a good situation.
2007-02-23 15:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say....heartbreak? Stay away, there's eventually nothing but hurt waiting for you in this situation.
2007-02-23 16:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by LUCIFER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. He is not available. And one thing you know about him for sure is that he is NOT faithful...not a good guy.
2007-02-23 15:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by wilsonbubba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away its nothing but a road of trouble ahead , when he leaves her then yes
2007-02-23 15:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by BajaRick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away... quick... you could get him in trouble... and why would you want him... remember if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you â¥
2007-02-23 15:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by just peachy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get together for an early dinner and talk about it!!!! Good Luck!!!!
2007-02-23 15:55:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋