Ive been dating my Leo guy for 2 years and we are doing good right now. The only thing is i wish he would open up to me more when i talk about serious issues in life. He buys me gifts and treats me well but sometimes i love to have a heart to heart talk and i think he either gets irritated by it or makes light of it and tries to make me laugh when i get serious or sad. I wish hed talk to me more and open up when i have something important to say to him. IF there are any Leos out there, what does one have to do to accomplish this???????? ima scorpio and sometimes i feel my emotional needs arent being met with him concerning real issues. This saddens me, but other than that hes great, hes faithful , and hes sooo fun to be around? any suggestions?
2007-02-23 07:38:54 · 20 answers · asked by Marci 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
break up wuth him. you don't match
2007-02-23 07:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am a Scorpio and have been dating a Leo man for about a year. Have you ever tried the velvet hammer approach with him? My Leo man has told me that he appreciates the way I slap him upside the head. Of course I've never hit him, it is all figurative. You really have to tap into your intuition with these lover boys. They love to have fun and they need to feel like it's all about them. Maybe your best bet would be to ask him in a nonchalant way if all of his needs are being met, if you are being the best girlfriend you could be from his viewpoint. Now, be ready to keep a poker face with whatever response you get, cause you could be caught off guard.
Or, you could try turning to some of your closest friends with some of the issues you speak of. My overall experience with men is they really appreciate a girl that knows when to share with them and when to use their other friends. That doesn't mean not to tell them what is going on, but vent to someone else about the details of it.
2007-02-23 11:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Melinda H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scorpios are very deep and emotional whilst Leos are very up front and more on the surface, what you see is what you get. I do think Cancerians might be a better match for you, Pisces are on a similar emotional wave length but you might be a bit hard for them to handle. Capricorns will support you but do they ever really understand Scorpios? Leos are great fun but sometimes you need more than a laugh....you need to cry too. Be yourself and see where it goes, Good Luck.
2007-02-23 08:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scorpio & Leo
When Leo and Scorpio join together in a love match, the result is usually a dynamic and intense union. They are well tuned in to one another's needs; Scorpio demands respect and to be wanted while Leo needs to be adored and complimented constantly. They are both extremely loyal, and often possessive of one another. Both members of this love match are able to give the other what they need and while enjoying one another's strengths.
Leo relishes comfort and luxury, often doing things on a grand scale. Leo tends to be flamboyant, and Scorpio will appreciate that and will be happy to be the audience Leo requires as long as there is equality in the relationship. Leo shines brighter and more insistently, evolving into the living, breathing manifestation of magnificence and luxury. Scorpio shies away from the limelight but likes to control the mechanics. Because both Signs are so determined, these partners really need to work to understand and accept one another.
Leo is ruled by the Sun while Scorpio is ruled by the Planets Mars and Pluto. The Sun is about ego and self, and it radiates warmth and light. Leo indeed emits this kind of zeal and enthusiasm. Mars is about war, brashness and battle, and Pluto is the influence on Scorpio's inner dialogue. Ruled by the House of Sex, Pluto influences the idea of regeneration and rebirthing that is a current theme in Scorpio's life. Together, this abundance of male energy causes Leo and Scorpio to lighten their conflicts and assist one another. The Sun represents life, and Mars and Pluto represent ambition and the unconscious; as long as they take the time to really understand one another on a deep level, their romance is a positive one with high expectations.
Leo is a Fire Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. Leo demands the freedom to mingle, while Scorpio has a chameleon personality. Both Signs want to lead, but in different ways, and this common desire could end up causing ripples in an otherwise steady, smooth relationship. Like the Elements that influence them, these two have the ability to cancel one another out. At times, their relationship may not be so harmonious. However, both partners will realize that petty disputes are only a distraction, and as long as they can keep their egos at bay and give the relationship top priority, their conflicts can usually be resolved.
Scorpio and Leo are both Fixed Signs. Both can be rigid, opinionated and resistant to change. They both tend to be persistent when working toward their goals. If they have a plan, they'll stick to it until they get what they want. They usually share a reluctance to change, preferring a stable and steady road. If they have dissimilar ideas about something, they may end up in a never-ending cycle of struggles. Scorpio won't budge because to them, it would be a sign of weakness. And Leo may think Scorpio is being too self-righteous. If they understand they're on the same side in the larger scheme of things, it's much easier for them to remain productive.
What's the best aspect of the Leo-Scorpio relationship? It's their shared sense of dedication to one another and the projects they partake in. Both Signs have very powerful, yet strategically different, personalities. They are seen as a strong pair by others, and their dedication to fulfilling their desires makes theirs a strong love match.
Don't worry about it, you're doing just fine!! I hope I helped!!
2007-02-23 07:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hinata 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leo and Scorpios tend to have crazy power struggles. I just ended a 2 year relationship with a leo and I'm a scorpio girl.
2007-02-23 09:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Leo and I dated a Scorpio for 3 years. Leos thrive on affection and attention, so it may be the WAY (sorry no italics) that you're communicating to him. You have to show him that you need his advice and how important and meaningful it is. He is just throwing his best at you, but not what's best FOR you. The cold truth is he will be more inclined to help you if he feels affection and a "my hero" kind of vibe from you. You may be exhibiting this, but it has to be REALLY obvious, almost needy, (almost) for him to see where you're coming from.
2007-02-23 07:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Realvocalist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a great guy, but he is one of few words. My dad was like that, but we all knew he took care of us which meant, he loved us. He is gone now, but still with me. He would say when ever something bothered me, "Consider the source Queen." Which is what you have to do. You already know how your boyfriend is, you are not going to change him, don't try, he is the way he is and there must be something about him you love in order to have stayed with him.
I have been married almost 34 yrs and yes I don't always get that romantic man I would like to have, but he is good to me, my kids and I would have it any other way.
Everyone has their own way of showing love. I have a Leo daughter and she is very closed off at times, but we are the best of friends and she is 30.
I don't think you have anything to worry about. Enjoy like together and be understanding of him.
2007-02-23 07:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Momwithaheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny, me, the male am also a leo, and my wife is also a scorpio, but that doesn't matter. You are putting too mush faith in astrology. Get real. Sit down, talk to your guy, and work things out. If he seems like he doesn't want to work things out, leave him. If he isn't willing to put forth the work to open up to you, then it's not worth the anger for you.
2007-02-23 07:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Cool guy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think thats a problem with any man not just a leo, but let him know that you feel your emotional needs aren't being met, and that is something that needs to be worked on, other wise i think that it eventually may ruin the relationship. i've had this problem before (i'm a scorpio and my ex is a taurus) but i don't think that you should think that it is only a leo trait
2007-02-23 07:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Cherie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok im not a Leo nor Scorpio, but maybe he doesnt want to talk about that subject or maybe he doesnt feel comfortable talking about it...so I think seems how you guys are going well try asking him or try explaining it better to him.
2007-02-23 07:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by Arron 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a scorpio, dated a leo for 9 years. Your emotional needs are VERY important. He couldn't handle it, we had to move on.
2007-02-23 07:42:30 · answer #11 · answered by mzindica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋