have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move,. so he told me that he finds me to be very attractive and to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. but he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thoughtwell he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....so I called him yesterday..and told him i was going to starbucks and if he wasn't busy after work, he could join me he told me that starbucks sounds good, however today wouldn't be too good since he's busy, and that we would have to meet up sometime next week..then I asked him if he wasn't interested would he tell me?
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He replied that "if I wanna meet up with him that's cool" "But I can't say that I'm intrested in it be an ongoing thing"....and i thought to myself hmm..okay..I mean I wasn't trying to make you my man or anything.. and then I thought well you were the one that invited me out first, he invited me to workout with him, and to church..so I'm a litle confused..
2007-02-23 07:38:25 · 3 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
go out for that coffee. he may be falling back cause he felt rejected or he may not be interested any more. He may have found someone else, or he may be just confused or uncomfortable. you won't know till you go.
2007-02-23 07:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who know's maybe he got hurt cuz u never went to church with him so now he wants u to feel bad like he did; maybe he got back with his gf and he's not lookn to talk to you nemore; maybe he really is broke and just embarrassed about it. Or maybe he was just trying to make you a booty call type thing and now he changed his mind.
I dunno maybe he's on drugs. Who care's tho, Right??? I mean there are plenty of men in this world and if he's gonna act like a schitzo you don't need to be bothered with it. Because either way you look at he is Confused, playing games, or out of his damn mind and I'm sure you don't need to deal with any of that.
2007-02-23 07:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by cuteness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on if I were you. I'm a man and he sounds like he is not really that interested to me.
2007-02-23 07:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by rbarc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋