By just looking at my picture, do I look Ok for being 42 years old?

Question

I'm beginning to wonder about myself, not much going on at home if you know what I mean.

Answer 1

Your looking good to me. What really matters is how you act not how you look....

Answer 2

My opinion- yes you do! I am only 23, but I work with a lot of people in their 40s so I dont think your looks have anything to do with why things aren't going on at home LOL. I do get what you mean, and Im sorry that its that way. If it hasnt been that way long, maybe your significant other is just going through a phase with a lot on their mind or something. If its been going on for a long time, maybe you should have a talk with them and say you are just wondering why you havent been too intimate with one another lately. No matter what happens, I wish you the best of luck. I've been in your situation!

Answer 3

I had this problem once, whay don't you take your wife on a date, sort of rekindle the romance again. It's probably still there, but at 42 you probably have some kids, job, stress, bills, etc. Those things can get in the way. My husband and I went on a date once a month, we took turns planning it, to make it a special event and devoted to each other. You still got it flaunt it! Have fun!

Answer 4

You look ok from what I can see on your picture. Why don't you have a discussion with your partner and find out whats going on. Let your partner know that you are still young and there are things that need to be taken care of, so there is a problem, you need to know about it, and you both need to work on it, and if there is no problem, then things need to change or you will have to go elsewhere and find it! good luck

Answer 5

You picture is like half an inch square, no one can tell what you look like from that. And you shouldn't need validation from a bunch of strangers. The most attractive thing in a man is self-confidence, and you can't build that if you're constantly worried about other people's opinions of you.
Go join on a dating site, sign up for dance classes at your local community center, get a hobby... that will get you out there meeting women.

Answer 6

I guess you look fine for a dude. But if not much is going on at home you ought to work on your relationship. Maybe she thinks you need to to work out or lose weight. Its not a bad thing to stay fit and healthy so do it anyway even if you dont think you have to.

Answer 7

Well.......I think that as you say "not much going on at home " has nothing to do with how you look like.
Age has nothing to do also.
There is another problem, and I'm sure you know well what it is.
Try with a counselor....or talk with your partner directly. Sometimes people dont want to face their problems, and allow them to grow up till is impossible to solve them.
Wish there is not your case.

Good luck.

Answer 8

Yahoo answers is where you come for an ego boost?

You are right there isn't much going on at home. You were in the military, make something happen for yourself. Don't ask these people what they think of you. Go ask people who know you.

Answer 9

Of course you do. Don't doubt yourself. You didn't mention if you are married or not. If you are married, then recapture the romance with your wife and I don't have to give you instructions on that. If you are single; go for it...there are many single women looking for a nice guy. Go on match.com do your profile; or eharmony.com. Join clubs; go dancing and have a good time. Life is beautiful! Enjoy it and have confidence!

Answer 10

Well, it's hard to see the small pic, but from what I can tell you look fine. Have you tried talking directly with your partner to find out what's going on, and how to improve quality/frequency?

Answer 11

No I don't know what you mean but I think you should loose weight or something because I think you look a lot older than 42. Maybe that is what is wrong?