well me and my ex bf went out and broke up to times he is always was flirting with other girls we r not dating now but i miss him so much when i see him with another girl i feel like breaking down into tears i miss him so much if anyone answering this guestion has heard the song "when it was me" and "walk away" by paula deanda well those songs that discribe my situation i need advice what do i do if i love and miss him so much and want him back in my life so badly and i know HE DON'T FEEL THE SAME WAY what do i do help please.........
2007-02-23 07:22:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Move on. Imagine if you think you're heart's breaking now and you do get h im back, but then he keeps flirting, it will hurt twice as much. It is normal to feel the way you do, you're in love with him. But the best thing you can do for yourself is move on knowing that it was HIS loss and not yours. Tell yourself, believe and know that YOU DESERVE BETTER. Don't YOU? At least this way you've got your pride. If you got him back, everyone would be laughing at you behind your back knowing that he's unfaithful.
When you see hijm with someone else - even though it's tearing you apart inside, don't let it show. IN time, you'll get over him.
Be strong and good luck
2007-02-23 07:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Slim Shady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always hurt 2 luv some1 who u feel don't luv u back or not as much as u luv them. The truth is u don't want some1 like that n ur life, u don't want 2 invest time n some1 who won't do the same n return. If u get him back due 2 pressuring him, u 2 might break up 4 the same reason y'all did b4, u might c that he's not worth it, or he might just break up w/ u & hurt u more then wat he has already done. Let him go & if it's meant 2 b, it shall b. There's 2 things he can b thinking rite now while he's dating these other girls 1) he could b trying 2 make u jealous 2) he could b showing u that he has moved on. Either way it goes, he's not thinking about ur feelings. I'm not suggesting that u hate him, but u need 2 move on but the longer u wait the harder it will b & the more hurt ur going 2 feel. I been n ur situation b4 & it does hurt, but it gets better, & just like me, u might find some1 10x better, & that boy is going 2 wish that he done better by u.
2007-02-23 15:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number 1 quit dweling on him
2. start having a life with out him by giving the other fellows a chance.
3. You have to l et him know you can live without him.
4.start by going out with friends and go out with the purpose of having a good time. let him see you are enjoying yourself. If he sees that the break up is not bothering you. He may try to win you back and you at the same time have a chance of meeting someone who realley cares about you
I went through the same thing and took this advice given to me by my girlfriend and I found a great husband and can laugh over the way felt when the one I thought was the only broke up with me
2007-02-23 15:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone who dosent love you really sucks
I have never felt this pain before in my life.
Even when I broke off a 25yr relationship,we were willing to move on.
Not so with being dumped after only 8mos,it hurts like hell.
I guess if we keep talking with others these feelings too shall pass.
2007-02-23 15:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by domani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u can do is either deal with it or hope and pray as i do for my ex that im still inlovw with after 3yrs aprt and a child. so i know how u feel its hard dealing with it i think about her 24/7 many will tell u 2move on as they told me but if ur unconditional about him ur tha only one that can decide when u wanna give up mentally
2007-02-23 15:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by slimsoulja70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋