Ok, i thought i was staight! but.... ive started to notice Girls! when i think back i always have! I totally have a crush on one of the personel trainers at my gym! And yes it is a girl! I think i still like guys! but i would really like to be with a girl! wouldnt even no where to start in meetin girls! Really confussed! any advice?
2007-02-23 07:20:17 · 11 answers · asked by Abey S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, for those of you who didn't know, it is part of our vast gay conspiracy to plant hot personal trainers in the gyms so that straight people will be lured over to our side. Clever, aren't we?
2007-02-23 07:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by unitedwestand7s 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
IMO the simplest way to differentiate between a random sexual impulse and an actual interest in a homosexual relationship, is to question whether you could see yourself in a long term relationship with the 'object of your interest'. Is it simply a thrill to think about being with her? Or is there an attraction beyond that? Either way.. no need to label yourself. Should you feel the need to do so though, state that you love a person, not a persons body parts.
While I do not want to go off on a tangent here, I noticed that you've already been attacked from a religious standpoint. *IF* it turns out that you find yourself interested in a long term homosexual relationship, there are wonderful gay Christian groups out there. There are also support groups for a variety of other religions. Loving a person is not a sin. Whether a sexual relationship with that person is a sin or not is not for anyone else to say. That is between you and whatever god you believe in.
Best wishes...
2007-02-23 15:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by witchylust 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was once in the same spot you are in. I didn't start liking girls until I was 25. I always thought I liked men, then something happened and I realized that maybe I like girls. Ever since I have been with girls and I have never been happier. Just do what you think is best for you.
2007-02-23 15:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by sda0804 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At age 24 I started questioning my sexuality more because of my mom. When I came out to my mom she was in denial and then started saying "what is the family going to think" "you're going to be judged by good"...Then I was like....wow....NOW I don't care what my family thinks of me...love me or hate me this is me!
I've always been attracted to women/men my whole life since I can remember. I don't deny my sexuality! So don't worry...do what feels right to you and don't think about what society or anybody in the world thinks or feels about what you want as a person for youreself. =)
Good luck!
2007-02-23 15:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like girls, but as I describe it, only with guys is there "magic!" I think the main reason I used to like girls more is that I was expected to. Like a six-week old puppy, now my eyes are open.
2007-02-23 15:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to meet a girl go to lesbain bar a chat room. Or if a girl as her left ear pierced at the top of her ear then thats means that she's a lesbains.
2007-02-23 17:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by shadowdemon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unlike miss baseball girl... ive known since i was little that i was different & that i liked girls & im okay with it... Just dont let it consume you & dont doubt yourself at all.
& just take miss BBG's advice... do what you want & people will like you whether your gay, straight, confused, sure or whatever.
*** JONAH - i love your name!**
2007-02-23 15:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to experiment. Doesn't necessarily mean you're gay.
**Thanks, Marilyn:)**
2007-02-23 15:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Syck 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be yourself and follow your heart. Don't let someone else change who you are.
2007-02-23 15:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebody281 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lie. Don't believe it, don't speak it. Speak only the truth over yourself. Homosexuality is a nasty trap that I too fell into. I was like you, it seemed to change mid life. I began to believe that I was gay. I spent 8 years in a horrible miserable life, and now through Jesus, I have my freedom. Don't let it eat you alive. Don't label yourself. It's ok to really like antoher girl, but it doesn't have to be sexual. It can be friendship. Don't let it be anything else.
2007-02-23 15:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 0⤊ 7⤋