what can I do ? i love him . and its hard us
2007-02-23 07:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by annabell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no...that would be low sex drive...
2007-02-23 07:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not very specific so I'll try : If he is more than willing to have sex with you often, it is not him, but if he does not seem to need it often, he could have a low sex drive. Not all humans are equally interested in sex.
If you are turning him down frequently, you could have some hormonal imbalance, see you're GYN.
If you truly have a low self esteem and belong to a Church, talk to you're Minister or a very good friend or if you have the money, it's worth to see a Counsellor.
If he is a good man, he'll help you through this, good Luck!
2007-02-23 15:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be self-esteem. Does he complain about not having enough sex? Not every couple has sex everyday. You could try to boost your self-esteem by maybe buying some cute sexy lingerie or if your overweight or even if your not try going to a gym and workingout a few times a week, if nothing else it might give you the energy to get things heated up in the bedroom. Good luck I hope this helps!
2007-02-23 15:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by precious1too 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it could be that, or it might be he has the low self esteenm, either way you guys need to work something out, maybe he is afraid of touching you, or he thinks that he is forcing you to have sex, you really need to talk with him on this, and get to know each other again, which could be quit fun. You both really need to sit down adn discuss this problem. And i would do it right away.
2007-02-23 15:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's because he has a lower sex drive than you do...
And this is probably giving you a lower self esteem.
There is a support group for the sexually neglected - SWAGE.
Come talk to us, we understand because we share your plight, and we are nice people...
2007-02-23 15:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just give him Viagra, and say 'Jump on it, baby!!!!!' JK! Just confront him on the problem, and ask him why it's so hard for him. Maybe he could possibly be interested in getting a male enhancement, if you wish him too as well.
2007-02-23 15:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by The PUNK Goddesssss 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It could be that, but it could be depression, or the drugs to treat depression.
2007-02-23 15:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋