but he expects me to not like him and im wondering if it will be wierd on monday when we go back to school...PLZ HELP
2007-02-23 07:02:03 · 11 answers · asked by Tiana V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it won't be weird unless you make it weird.. you can stay liking him b/c those are your feelings and no one can tell you to get rid of them but maybe you need to find away to get over him but stay friends with him..and if he sees how cool u r with it maybe he will like u then
2007-02-23 07:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by scytherbug@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like nothing has happened. Treat him just the way you normally would have treated him and be his friend. Sometimes friendship leads to a relationship but do go in it expecting his feelings to turn. Try to focus on the friendship, school and other friends and not focus on the feeling because you will only hurt yourself if he doesnt want more. There are other guys out there if he doesnt show interest.
2007-02-23 07:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an older lady, so I have been through this. There are two answers for this. Either they are trying to cop out without hurting your feelings because they don't want to be anything else, because they do not feel the same as you OR
They just don't want a committment, but all the fringe benefits.
2007-02-23 07:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by Smokeygirl49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then just be friends. and on monday you may feel a little weird or hurt but go on. and as a matter a fact don't avoid him but play it cool. there is more than one guy on campus, right. u will meet the right guy. and at least he is being honest up front and not dragging you along etc.
2007-02-23 07:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by aepheather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him.. man.. thats a knife through the heart. Fight for him if you really like him. If you stay in the "let's just be friends" zone, then you guys will never know. See how things go if you tell him how you feel and then if it all works out, keep risking it all! Don't let what he says prevent you from doing what YOU want to do. If you like him, then fight for him, and make him WANT to like you.
2007-02-23 07:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you tellhim that you liked him? well then he might feel weird on monday but you should let him know that you are ok with just being friends..what if later on in life you guys would end up together....
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>having his friendship is better than not talkign to him no more ever..right .> tell im that you are ok with beign friends
2007-02-23 07:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fine then tell him don't expect me to not like me too... smiling... so nothing wrong I have female friend who I am a male and we glad we didn't have gf or bf thing but we become best friend for 16 years now smiling she has boyfriend for 13 years I have wife for 10 years. so we still best friend.. I am glad..
2007-02-23 07:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably will feel weird but you can do it. Just try your hardest not to act any different than you did before he knew you liked him.
2007-02-23 07:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink you should tell him how you feel> but i know it would be weird so maybe tell him on e-mail or some thing like that.if he just wants to be friends tell him its totally cool.just dont say you love him and dont act stupid around him
2007-02-23 07:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by patty b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant change yo feelins just like that...he cant expect u just to stop likin u either....but u have to respect he just wants to be friends.. no it wont be weird just hang out like yall used to **** only you still no u still like him (try not to show it as much) DONT DO NOTHIN
2007-02-23 07:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by mesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋