Love at first sight, is this just a theory or does this happen in real life. Is this just lust in its truest form.
2007-02-23 06:34:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Truth is, that there is more to a person, that what you see or meet initially. You could like someone at first site, but your never going to deeply fall in love with someone at first site...its just not at that easy, they way they show it in the movies.... it takes time and getting to know each other, to REALLY fall in love with that person....I think most people say that they fell in love at first site, because they were mesmerized by that persons looks when they first say them...and then they got to know each other, and it just so happened to work out relationship wise...so they say, "oh yes it was love at first site..."
2007-02-23 06:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is remotely possible to achieve love at first sight, but I think it is about as likely as getting struck by lightening twice in the same day.
I am not sure it is merely lust either but I think lust contributes to it. I think most likely it is an inexplicable attraction to another person that you happen to be aware enough to notice. Now whether that attraction can blossom into love depends on whether you take the risk to reach out to this person and to get to know her as she really is, not who you hope she is.
You see, I believe we often present our ideal selves to new people, especially people to whom we are sexually attracted. Eventually, though the ideal self must give way to the real self so that you can figure out if you really have what it takes a couple to weather thick and thin.
So attraction at first sight, yes. Love, well love is a much deeper process than first sight would ever allow.
2007-02-23 06:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Greg C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in love at first sight.
I think it depends on whether you believe love 'is', or if it is just created.
I fell in love at first sight. It wasn't lust, it wasn't just attraction. It was an indefinable connection I felt, instantly.
Now, it's true, you don't really know that person, and what you find out, you may not like, ultimately. But the love, it's undeniable.
I believe love is that thing that might make others say "what do they see in him/her?" They don't get it.
But you feel it, and you know that no matter what You would rather be with that person than anywhere else.
Anyway, yeah I believe in it.
"So what is love then? Is it dictated or chosen?" - Indigo Girls
2007-02-23 07:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by strangefire2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust in its truest form yes, its not love until you get to know the crust of someone.
2007-02-23 06:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by always wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 04:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I don't believe in "love" at the first sight. It might crush or lust but definitely not love. Love not only means, oh look! he/she is cute! Love means that this person cares for, understands, supports, helps, respects and cherishes you. This is the "love cocktail". Other than that, it's only merely a crush, but nothing more.
2007-02-23 07:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in love at first sight. Its never actually happened to me, but my girl says that's how she felt when we first met. I absolutely believe her and we've been inlove ever since. But i also think in many sitautions it can very well be lust in its truest form as you said.
2007-02-23 06:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by dangerously_inlove_01 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think its lust at first sight and love over time
2007-02-23 06:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by crazybubbleblower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I never really felt in love,
but a few months ago, I suddenly knew what it is to be in love
It was really love @first sight. (shame she isn't a lesbian, but I still love her that!! much)
love at first sight, I believe in that!
2007-02-23 06:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by frenzie-ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not love, it's just lust. now you just need to find out if this person likes you too and get to know him or her and see if you like his/her personality too.
2007-02-23 06:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋