So. I am a girl, and I am 14 years old. Sometimes, i find girls attractive, like physically. I could never really see myself dating, kissing, or having sex with another girl, but lesbian porn turns me on more than straight porn. I'm really confused and i dont know anymore. I still like boys, and i still think they are cute too. And i could see myself dating them. Is this normal?
2007-02-23 06:23:40 · 10 answers · asked by Brittney 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think you need to give it a couple of years you are way too young to be pondering the things you are and way too young to be looking at porn
2007-02-23 06:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just sounds like you know what general beauty is, may it be a female or male... however this does not make you a lesbian.
The fact that you are questioning your sexuality may suggest that you are bisexual. The answer to "if you are a lesbian or not" is that: You Are Not. Lesbians do not find the opposite sex attractive in "that way"... so the fact that you like guys rules this option out. However you MAY be bi. You're still young, so don't conclude anything at the moment. As you grow up you'll learn more about yourself and who knows... you may find a girl that will steal your heart.
So for right now... just know that you're not a lesbian. But you possibly could be bisexual. I suggest you try dating a girl (... not just any girl... but one you really like)... if the relationship feels right to you then- Congrats you're bi.
Best of luck. - Luv
2007-02-23 14:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Falsefaith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are quite normal. There is a wide range of normal when it comes to sexual and romantic feelings. Young people your age often think about sex with members of the same gender because you are trying to understand the various options and roles. You are undergoing rapid and massive physical, emotional and mental changes. Be patient with yourself.
You might be lesbian but do not rush to judgment. Be open-minded about your feelings, explore them and see where they lead you. Mostly, stay innocent. Don't think you have to run off and have sex with somebody just to find out your sexuality. Keeping it the feelings exploration level will give you more room to learn and grow.
Finally, please know that porn is not reality. What looks good on-line or in a magazine is not what reality is like. In other words, looking at pornography is probably not a great strategy to learn about your sexuality. Better to talk about it with a trusted friend or parent, maybe even a counselor.
2007-02-23 15:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Greg C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I mean some people see sexuality as a very fluid thing. Personally i'm attracted to women, and i'm a lesbian. But i mean i sometimes feel that a man is handsome or attractive even though i would never date him. Lesbian, bi, or straight u like what u like and thats ok.
2007-02-23 17:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by meg r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, you're bi-curious. I believe almost all girls and women experience this, just not everyone admits it. You're perfectly normal. And even if you do eventually mess around with another girl, that still wouldn't make you lesbian. Bi maybe, but not lesbian.
Besides, girls really are better looking then boys. So I say look away!!! lol
2007-02-23 14:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mystical Illusions 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're confused, and that's perfectly normal for your age. Don't worry about it, honey... your teens are for growing, changing, and establishing your identity. You have quite a few years before you'll really know yourself (and again, that's normal!)
If you decide you're bi, great. Lesbian, that's great. Or straight... it's totally about how you feel, you know? Don't stress it. You don't have to decide right now :)
2007-02-23 14:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Eve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are having attractions for girls period.. maybe your just coming into realization that your bi..AND if sooo...Its okay..Just take things slow or at your desired pace.....No need to panic..and all will fall into place. : )
2007-02-23 14:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
y r u watching porn @ your age....play some soccer
2007-02-23 15:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by crazybubbleblower 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow ur young..it mite be a face ur going through... i think we r all bi at a time until we find out wut we really want...try doing something wit a girl and find out ur true feeling...
2007-02-23 14:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by sexylezbian956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell but yes you do sound atleast bi to me.
2007-02-23 14:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋