he has never seen her and don't want anything to do with her i was getting child support from him though DHS and now he dosen't work and i can't fine him so now i want him to just sign over his rings so i'm not having to worry any more if i'm going to get money or if he's working still i just don't want anything to do with him any more how can i get this started?
2007-02-23 05:57:49 · 11 answers · asked by a_phleb_7604764 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Have you tried the severed horse head trick?
2007-02-23 06:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by Scott M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm having the same issue, but to get the birth father to sign over his rights you have to hire a lawyer and go through the court system. They have ways of finding him!
2007-02-23 14:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by mindyb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. He is legally obligated to you or to the state for her support and to the taxpayers who are actually supporting her. Even if he relinquished all custody he would still be liable for her support. The only way he can be legally relieved of future support is if someone else adopts your daughter -- thereby assuming responsibility for her support.
2007-02-23 14:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he never saw her, why was he still paying? You may re-marry one day. At that time, your new husband will probably want to adopt her. You might as well save the paper work for a one-time deal.
2007-02-23 14:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Groovy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that if he dont want anything to do with his kid then sign it over so that way he wont get stuck in a hole having to pay so much money. I just didnt have my ex give me anything because I dont want him to bother me, but hey you wanna come over and see your daughter then you are more that welcome. Hes never stopped and hes now in PA and were in HI.
2007-02-23 14:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by kuhilanigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a lawyer to get all this done legally. You may even want to pay HIM to go away and never come back.
2007-02-23 14:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by MrKnowItAll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer him the same thing that you obviously know he wants, because thats how you ended up with a daughter in the first place.
2007-02-23 14:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your lawyer. go to the courts and get help with that. they'll be able to find him and make him take responsibility. i'm sorry to hear that it's come to that for you.
2007-02-23 14:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by amymrgrt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it sounds like he would be all for it. Go to your local legal aid office and tell them your story to see what they can do for you.
2007-02-23 14:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Rach23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See an attorney!
2007-02-23 14:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋