i supposed to be happy after divorce (due to 3rd party invasion). however, after a year more, i started to lose balance in life. that actually happened after divorce. i thought i have moved on from the marriage failure but instead i'm stuck somewhere back...long before the marriage. i find myself difficult to engage in new relationship but damn good at flirting...probably latter won't involve any marital sorts. this is what i hate myself of.
2007-02-23 05:42:10 · 10 answers · asked by crystal ball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is normal for your self confidence to waiver a bit. Here's what I did...joined a gym, found a Church with an active young adult ministry, took some night college classes, and well, I got a tattoo on my butt.
2007-02-23 05:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why you think you supposed to be happy? A year more than what? What balance you talking about?
Maybe the problem always yours, but better question, what party invaded what? Sound like a war on divorce.
You stuck somewhere back..long before the marriage? You got time machine?
You damn good at flirting? Me TOO!
You got nice t*ts and a**, baby!
Don't hate yourself of anything.
2007-02-23 05:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by bpgveg14 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with flirting providing the men you FLIRT with don't get the wrong impression about you! [And that the women who know you won't GOSSIP behind your back]!
If you feel that you're ready to date someone now, why not network yourself a little? Take an enrichment course, do a little voluntary work, participate in play or sporting event, and when all else fails...attend church and say a few prayers! :)
2007-02-23 05:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by argytunes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hello crystal ball im very glad to meet you i agree with you what you mean about going through a divorce i have done that myself but im looking foe some to make a new relationship with now whenever the right one comes along for me as for you you havent got no reason to hate yourself ok love will be found for you some day when t he right one comes along for you
2007-02-23 05:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by haroldgardner62002006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are numerous people who would laugh at the prospect of changing their fates. This is because it thinks that no one gets more that exactly what is put in his fate.
2016-05-17 10:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by pauline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it! just have fun!!! you were married and now single... its all about flirting and having lots of fun!! no need to go rushing into another relationship so soon! just relax, flirt and have an amazing time!!!
2007-02-23 05:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Saritah Bonita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it time, you were use of being married, and now that your not. well its going to take time for yourself to realize that now you only have to think of yourself and not your husband. go out with friends and mingle, who knows you might just meet the right one. good luck.
2007-02-23 05:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look its hard at first but it gets easier. i promise you that. he was the failure not you. remeber that. start slow get to know you first . the you that you forgot you were. reinvent yourself you'll find what you need then you'll get what you want.
2007-02-23 05:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been there!!!! Take time, do not worry soooo much!!! That happens all the time.
2007-02-23 05:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is there a POINT you are trying to make?
2007-02-23 05:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋