Ok. So I recently visited my friend who I have had feelings for for a long time. This weekend, she asked me to live with her when I graduate college and before we went to bed, she said that she needed to tell me something in a note. She hasn't yet. She also asked me to hold her. I'm really confused. I love her very much, but I don't want to say anything and risk losing a friend if the feelings aren't mutual. She talks about liking other people sometimes and she has said in the past that she didn't date friends, but that was two years ago. I'm getting mixed signals and I'm just not sure what to think.
2007-02-23 05:34:45 · 2 answers · asked by iclaimfreedom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you think that she is giving you mixed signals then you need to tell that you are not sure what she means and ask her where this leading to. Maybe she just needs some comforting and by writing the note it is helping her express her feelings towards you,just because she does not know how to put it into words. Maybe she is confused herself and does not know truly what she wants, but that is something that she is going to have to figure out and she has to be willing to be upfront with you. Give her a little more time and then see what happens maybe she will tell you that she wants to be more then friends or just stay friend and why she feels that way.
2007-02-23 06:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that to her...That you have mixed signals from her can she tell you where you both stand...as friends or more than friends? Also...I would ask her what it is she wants to talk to you about and why can't she talk to YOU and has to write it through a note?? Tell her "you don't bite lol , she can talk to you about anything". GoodLuck*
2007-02-23 13:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋