Some guys say, "Oh I would never cheat on my wife." Is it because that he is so fat and ugly that nobody wants to do it with him anyway?! I bet if Carmen Electra came over to his house when wife was away he would cheat in a blink of an eye. Or is it true that some men are really faithful?
2007-02-23 05:22:27 · 31 answers · asked by Rona9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its amazing how many girls think their guys are not cheating. Maybe its called "cheating" for a reason. Think about it!
2007-02-23 05:37:16 · update #1
There are cheaters and cheaters. Spouses who cheat because their relationship is terrible I do not hold in contempt like those who cheat just for the hell of it, or because they can.
2007-02-23 05:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband is faithful. How do I know? He's home EVERY night. There is no bar after work. He comes home to his wife and kids. And why not? He's treated like a king here. I knew him before we dated, when he was with his ex. Even when she was hours away in college, he never cheated on her and she wasn't even a catch. We have had 3-somes and all that other fun stuff, we do as a couple. Nobody is left at home, watching tv alone, while the other is out looking at other naked bodies. And I dont think either one of us would stand for it. I think there are those who cant stop cheating, no matter what they have (ex. brother in law) and then I think there are those who cheat because they are so unhappy in the relationship but cant or wont leave(not a good excuse but a reason). If something is lacking, it should be worked out. But that whole compatibility thing shouldve beenin check before the wedding. Another problem is when people marry (men and women) so many forget to be their gf/bf,too(if you know what I mean) and they fall into this trap as though they dont care about going that extra mile. Its still important.
2007-02-23 05:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a lot of cases you are correct. but not all men are cut from the same mold. There are some guys out there who are faithful and true. I know for a fact that my fiance is true to me and always will be. He is very religious and that plays a part. A guy who was brought up to respect women by his parents usually does well with women in the future. I also know my sisters husband adores her and he would never stray. So like I said there are good guys out there. You just have to be patient and wait for the right one to come along. Good luck!
2007-02-23 05:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 29 years. During that time, my husband, who has to travel a lot on business, has had many opportunities to cheat. He hasn't, because he loves me and and loves our daughter and would never want to hurt us.
If you objectify your spouse so that she is just "a woman" and any woman will do, there is no reason not to cheat, because you never consider your spouse to be a human being who you care about and who your actions can cause pain for. That's the mentality you're into, it seems to me.
Theoretically, your spouse should be the person who means more to you, as a human being, than anyone else in the world. If you don't think of your spouse in this way, what is the point of being married? And if you do think of your spouse this way, why would anyone in the world tempt you enough to hurt them?
I think men who see their spouses as people who are their best friends in addition to spouses are really faithful. I think that men who see their wives as objects rather than people are prone to cheat. I think it's that simple.
2007-02-23 05:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Karin C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a faithful loving man. Even when we have big problems that is not the cause. Give yourself a chance to be better than you think you are. My first husband cheated every chance he got and he was not nearly so attractive as my second and always husband. I am very happy and I thank you for asking a question I enjoyed answering!
2007-02-23 05:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by fishergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women cheat because they want to.
If they don't have a desire to, they won't.
I guarantee you in the Carmen Electra scenario....he would definitely give it a hell of a lot more consideration. For the simple celebrity appeal and low risk of being caught.
2007-02-23 06:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by jlonva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat on my wife!
Why mess up the best thing that ever happened in my life.
Been faithful 40 years and I have had opportunity but considered the consequences.
2007-02-23 05:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by old man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat a man like a man, love him and show him the kind of respect that you would want to be shown, and the chances of him cheating are reduced. Whether or not a man is likely to cheat depends upon his own personal character. The same would hold true for a woman. I trust my fiance. I don't believe he would cheat. He knows he has a good thing, he tells me often, and I adore him and treat him with love and the same respect he shows me.
2007-02-23 05:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think some men are truly faithful, I would think that if Carmen Electra came up to my door my husband would jump at the chance. But of course, if you ask him, he would rather have me(a broke-non-hottie) vs her (a rich probably stuck up hottie). So I dunno if he is just saying that because deep down he knows that he would have absolutely no chance in hell with her, or if he just doesn't want to be in the dog house. Who knows, but I don't think it is only men, I think some women would jump at the opportunity if say Vin Diesel showed up at her doorstep and her old man wasn't home, and if I told you that I wouldn't even think about it, I would be a liar because I would think about it, but I dunno if I could actually go through it or not, I would definitely have to weigh my options to see what would be best for me.
2007-02-23 05:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by melody g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was faithful during my marriage of 16 years.I also consider myself to be fit and healthy,well groomed and not to bad looking.I had no reason to cheat because I was committed to my wife and was getting all the attention I needed at home.I didn't see cheating as an option because my ex wife was very attractive also.
2007-02-23 05:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No some guys are really true to their talk. The guy I know will never cheat on me even if any glam queen or actress or anyone else came to him..And he is not fat or ugly. If we have what we desire in one place we don't need to keep hopping all over. Content and satisfaction also matters.Who are you really expecting to answer this?Have fun!
2007-02-23 05:27:43 · answer #11 · answered by mildew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋