My spouse would die or I would kill him/her are not acceptable answers! LOL!
2007-02-23 05:21:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. Talk to spouse to try to make things better
2. Learn to bear the marriage hell.
3. Leave
2007-02-23 05:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Marriage counseling. Don't wait until you're ready for divorce; too many people who go have already decided they're going to divorce, and it's too late to get help then.
2. Improve yourself. Become more mature, more educated, more responsible, more courteous, more fair, more generous, more honest, and, above all, more assertive. By taking the high ground, you at the very least rise above the point where you are part of the problem and start becoming part of the solution.
3. Stop fighting. It takes two people to fight. Be happy, and do not state disagreement even if you feel it. Handle your life assertively, being neither aggressive nor passive. When things begin to improve, you will have plenty of time then to handle matters on which you disagree.
2007-02-23 14:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are three doable things to improve a marriage from HELL.
1.) Divorce
2.) Marriage Counseling
3.) If all else fails a Divorce.
2007-02-23 13:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Counseling or therapy to learn how you can deal with the things that are making your marriage hell. (Please note that counseling or therapy to try to figure out how to make the other person change is a waste of time. The only person whose actions you can surely change is you.)
2. Consider the reasons you got married in the first place. What were the things that attracted you to this person? What are the good things that you like about this person?
3. Consider a trial separation to think things out about what you want/need to do.
2007-02-23 13:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Karin C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are really good answers are you sure I can't use one of those? I have thought about this so much my head could explode! We have done one of the things that is supposed to help--talk over what the problems were and how to fix them 2. He could make an effort to prove that he is willing to correct those issues 3. Family consuling may help I don't know . There is a serious trust issue at the moment .I feel he needs to earn my trust by his actions and he assumes it is an automatic thing.
2007-02-23 13:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question you need to ask yourself is do you still want to be with your spouse if you answered yes than I would suggest that you both seek marriage counseling before it gets unrepairable. If you answered no, then get out of there real fast and don't ever look back.
2007-02-23 13:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ATTITUDE is everything. Put each other first and you'll get it back ten-fold. Decide right now that whatever the problem is doesn't matter anymore, and fight to remember what brought you together in the first place. Spend some alone time.
2007-02-23 13:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alone time together
Kind honesty
Thoughtfulness ( What effect will this have on my spouse)
2007-02-23 13:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get counseling
2. Decide to have an open relationship and live as roommates only
3. Go your separate ways (commonly known as divorce)
2007-02-23 13:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop being selfish, stop whinning, and put forth efforts to make your spouse feel special.
2007-02-23 13:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋