I've been out for a while...I've had problems just having friends to just hang out with that can relate to me. It usually ends up where they start having feelings for me, or they get involved with another girl and don't come out with me cause the girlfriend is insecure of me. Girls have you had this problem? Suggestions? Advice please! Where/How can I just build a good friendly relationship with lesbian women?
2007-02-23 05:07:54 · 5 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I definitely have this problem. Once they come out, they have too many girl friends to hang out with. If they're not out yet, the friendship doesn't go anywhere.
It's frustrating coz you end up not knowing where to look. But I think the best thing is for u to be honest from the start, that way no feelings are hurt and you don't waste your time on someone who isn't going to be ready to develop a relationship with you.
2007-02-23 05:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Changed by Lithium 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am always willing to be a friend. I am in a great relationship and my gf and I are not insecure when it comes to our friends. You will be welcomed with open arms. I know how it is sometimes. It's hard to find real friends, everybody is looking for something else other than just that for the most part.
2007-02-23 05:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your not into her like that...say stuff like "It sure feels good to have a FRIEND like you" I have the same problem with women but I love it so oh well...best of luck!!!
2007-02-23 05:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by ~Jamaica~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried looking at any of these websites before?
http://www.mogenic.com/
http://www.downelink.com/
http://www.bicupid.com/
2007-02-23 05:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM my screen name is EMOyeahboiiiEMO
2007-02-24 14:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋