I like to look and im aroused by girls asses. does this make me bi? cause i definately like guys. i kinda like my bestfriend and she has been flirting with me and she claims shes "stray"-straigth and gay. but i think shes playing. there is a possibility. how do i ask her if she is? and how do i ask her out?
2007-02-23 05:00:03 · 9 answers · asked by modelgyal91 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i can see myself kissing her. i think about her ALL the time and i cant get her outta ma head. she said how her other bestfriend asked her out and she said dat she was serious too. but she said no cuz shes Christian. i mean we both go to the same church. but idk i think its still worth a shot. i have serious feeling about her and ive even had visions of me and her having sex
2007-02-23 06:02:10 · update #1
Go out to lesbian clubs/bars...you'll be surprised how awesome gay women. You might also surprise youreself on how attracted you can be with them...experience...you can't go wrong...
I think you should tell you're friend about the feelings you've been having lately and how you're considering just ...going out and checking it out....bet you she'll go with you and things might get a little hot between the both of ya!!!
Good luck!
2007-02-23 05:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am aroused by girls asses too. That alone though won't define you as bi. Your interest in your best friend and the sorts of things you would like to do with her is probably a better indicator of your bisexuality than a general arousal from looking at girls asses. You are friends with her I am sure you can ask her out somewhere as a friend and talk with her. You could have her come over to your place for dinner and then watch a video that features either a lesbian couple or a lesbian and ask her what she thinks about that sort of relationship. It provides you a segway of sorts. The other option is to simply be more direct and ask her if she wants to go out on a date. I like that stray label she gives herself, I think it is cute.
2007-02-23 13:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by J J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. All I know is that I thought there was a difference between finding someone attractive and sexually attractive. I admit and say that a dude has a very nice physique (which means attractive, just word it this way), but I have never, ever, been aroused by a dude's parts. I can't help to think that when a person is aroused by someone's body parts, that is sexual attraction and not just attraction. I know feelings are a part of the deal, but I thought sexual attraction is also part of one's sexual orientation, or sexuality. I would have to say that you are atleast bi-curious, but that you probably are bisexual, you just haven't gone through the experience yet.
Dimples J, isn't a person sexually attracted to a person of the same sex if they looove looking at that person's ***. Yes, women find other women attractive, just as dudes do too, but just won't admit it. So, women or men might glance everyonce and a while at the same sex. But, I can't help to think that one finds the same sex sexually attracive if he or she loves to look or looks quite a bit at another person of the same sex's body. What seperates one from not going through when thye look that way, oh yeah I forgot it's about the feelings. I can't help, but to think that lust(horny) or sexual attraction is part of the equation if one loves to look, because that would be the motivation factor one to keep on looking or love doing so, whereas, non-sexual attraction might have someone look everyonce and a while, but not really.
2007-02-23 14:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Brennan Huff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're turned on by your friend's ***, you're probably at the very least, bi-curious. It only implies though that you find other women attractive. But if your follow up question is about asking her out, then that's for more certain that you're bi-curious. How about asking her how she knows she's "stray" and tell her you're interested and might be too?
I hope this helps.
2007-02-23 13:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by jonathan hawk follows closely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that's how it started out for me, I started looking at girl butts. It's sooo wonderful. I love it. Nothing wrong with that. Most girls thing that other girls are attractive,but wouldn't ever go there. I think your problem maybe that you just love your friend. Nothing wrong with that either. Yall probably hang together often, have a lot in common, and talk about private things and she got your mind first. It happens. I would see were it goes. Even if its just an experiment... experiment away.
2007-02-23 14:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dimples J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm aroused by girls asses also, maybe you and I could get together and discuss the finer points of asss. ;-)
Be careful, though, by the end of the night it may be your asss that's the topic of discussion.
2007-02-23 13:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you like girls *** maybe you wont to experiment go ahead don't be afraid to let your friend know how you feel maybe she likes your *** just as much
2007-02-23 13:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by mssweetblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl go for it and jus tell your friend because you never know if she wants to have sex with you..close mouths dont get feed in this world hun..lol
2007-02-24 20:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, I love the girls too!
2007-02-23 13:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Dane Cruz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋