MY GiRLFRiEND AND ii HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A REALLY LONG TiME...BUT LATELY SHE`SZ BEEN TELLiN ME ii NEED TO TOUGHEN UP, AND WE WE ARGUE TO START TALKiN BACK, AND STOP KRYiN ALL THA TiME, AND JUST ACT MORE AGGRESSiVE OVERALL...BUT...ii KANT BRiNG MYSELF TO DO THAT....WHEN WE ARGUE...i TEND TO CRY, OR i`M ALWAY`SZ CLOSE TO TEAR`SZ....i WAS THiNKiN ABOUT GETTiN A LiL TOUGHER BEFORE SHE SAiD ANYTHiNG...BUT...NOW THAT SHE DiD...i FEEL LiKE ii REALLY NEED TO HURRY UP...WHAT SHOULD ii DO!
2007-02-23 04:51:19 · 5 answers · asked by DAECHA`SZ PAPiiCHULO 82206 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be yourself. Dont try to change or act like something or someone that you're not. She should accept you as you are if she really loves you.
2007-02-23 04:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to toughen up for anybody. if you forced yourself to act differently than you normally do she wouldn't be dating the real you. you need to find somebody who appreciates you the way you are and doesn't force you to play a role.
2007-02-23 13:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar problem with a girl. i was being nice to her (just so she would like me) and that got me no where but then one day i got tired of playing nice and just started talking back to her, cussing her out and getting really short with her because she was getting on my nerves with all those mind games. she said that it turns her on when i act like that. basically, some girls like for you to be a jerk. weird
2007-02-23 13:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't that hurt your eyes when you type in all caps lock?
2007-02-23 12:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find another g/f one that doesn't want you quite as butch
2007-02-23 12:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋